im real close, i just need a little advice;;Any advice on how to get my parents to let me date?
Start off by asking if you can have the boy/girl come over for dinner.
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Broken up..but i cant get over him!HELP!!advice?
me and my boyfriend for 6 months are broken up and i cant seem to get over him :( he was my first love and im still not over him. I broke up with him because he always would ditch me for his boys and go to the bars! and he moved away 3 weeks ago and i cant do long distnace!even when he was in town he would never make time for me! how do i get over him even tho he treated me like crap i still love him!!HelpBroken up..but i cant get over him!HELP!!advice?
Get out and start meeting new people. Also look at the relationship realistically and focus on the reasons why you all broke up. Also realize that you deserve better than him. It will take awhile but eventually you will get over him. In the meantime enjoy being single.Broken up..but i cant get over him!HELP!!advice?
idk...i have never understood that sort of thing...it is pure insanity...completely illogical...it is surreal and outside the realm of a reasoning mind
Get out and start meeting new people. Also look at the relationship realistically and focus on the reasons why you all broke up. Also realize that you deserve better than him. It will take awhile but eventually you will get over him. In the meantime enjoy being single.Broken up..but i cant get over him!HELP!!advice?
idk...i have never understood that sort of thing...it is pure insanity...completely illogical...it is surreal and outside the realm of a reasoning mind
How do i get this girl back(girl advice pls)?
im a 14 year old boy and i got into a fight with my girlfriend over her friend to me it seemed like her friend tried to shove religion down my throat and i tried to tell her so i wrote a note saying we need to seperate with her and i called back later and said forget the note and she said we are through and i hurt her how do i get her back plz im despret for a good answerHow do i get this girl back(girl advice pls)?
Ok, if you broke up with a girl because of her friend, that's just stupid. She is not going to get back together with you. What would you do if she dumped you because she didn't like your friend. You would be pissed. If you really want to get her back, then tell her you are sorry and wait a while. If she doesn't come around after a while, than to bad so sad.
Ok, if you broke up with a girl because of her friend, that's just stupid. She is not going to get back together with you. What would you do if she dumped you because she didn't like your friend. You would be pissed. If you really want to get her back, then tell her you are sorry and wait a while. If she doesn't come around after a while, than to bad so sad.
Any advice for an ex-bum who's just going to get a job?
Dawgs, I'm currently a bum who has not worked for 9 years, It's my first time to get a job and I don't know what to do, what to expect and everything else that goes on in a job. Give some some honest to goodness advice co'z I'm confuse; I still can't get get over myself for being bum, however I also need to work so that I can have some money.Any advice for an ex-bum who's just going to get a job?
If this is an immigration question.....stay where you are.
We really have no openings here for professional bums.Any advice for an ex-bum who's just going to get a job?
Agree; it's not an immigration question, of course.
However, my advice is, regardless of the job you're seeking, try to show that you're interested in the work, and that your addition to the employer will pay off in your attentiveness and willingness to work hard.
And good luck to you!
Don't work any longer than necessary to receive unemployment insurance and Social security disability! Good luck, you lucky bum!
The first thing you need to do is think about what you are good at, i.e are you good with people can you talk and build a relationship eaisly with others, or are you more of a soliatry person who finds their own company enought to get by.
If you are someone that gets on with people somthing like a sales job might be somewhere to start, either as a checkout person or a sales person.
If you are the other, maybe a job in the secuity industry, or a storesperson may be a good way to look.
Not having work for 9 years i am guessing that your resume is not up to date, i am not sure where you are from but websites like www.seek.com.au have a good tool to develop your resume.
With out trying to be rude, i am also guessing you dont have many skills or a lot of experience, so my advice would be to sell your life experiences to them let them know that If they give you a chance to prove yourself to them they will not be disapointed, and that you know you will try %110 as you know that you do not want to be a bum anymore.
I would also suggest to wear the nicest clothing you have if you get an interview.
I hope that helps.
My best advice is to listen closely and don't be afraid to ask questions, but never question your bosses authority. He's in charge. Do everything with enthusiasm. Show up on time ready to work and do every task, no matter what it is, to the best of your ability. Take pride in a job well done.
lmfao. i agree. what does this have to do with immigration?
it's called apply
1) Don't say: ';Dawgs';.
2) Make sure what you say is grammatically correct and is spelled right if written.
3) For now, use your paycheck on bare necessities and put the rest in a savings account or in your shoes at least. As you continue to get more and more in your savings, you'll have more room to buy things for yourself.
4) Work hard and go up that ladder. Earn promotions and salary raises. You might find yourself sipping pina coladas on a cruise if it goes well (maybe in a decade or two).
What does this have to do with immigration?
This can't be real right?
First and foremost you'll go through cultural shock.
Followed by discrimination,bias stares, and not to forget HUMILIATION!
But now after this concept of shutting down the U.S./MEXICO borders WE might have a chance they claim! Will see if this occurs,or if they are just thinking wishfully for a new type of manifestation of replacements such as us!
See. Just like the first two answerer's who have too give out very political correctness for having had hidden agendas within their judging of anyone who might be different.
P.S. A good attitude will do wonders too if you so happen to come across down to earth people!
If this is an immigration question.....stay where you are.
We really have no openings here for professional bums.Any advice for an ex-bum who's just going to get a job?
Agree; it's not an immigration question, of course.
However, my advice is, regardless of the job you're seeking, try to show that you're interested in the work, and that your addition to the employer will pay off in your attentiveness and willingness to work hard.
And good luck to you!
Don't work any longer than necessary to receive unemployment insurance and Social security disability! Good luck, you lucky bum!
The first thing you need to do is think about what you are good at, i.e are you good with people can you talk and build a relationship eaisly with others, or are you more of a soliatry person who finds their own company enought to get by.
If you are someone that gets on with people somthing like a sales job might be somewhere to start, either as a checkout person or a sales person.
If you are the other, maybe a job in the secuity industry, or a storesperson may be a good way to look.
Not having work for 9 years i am guessing that your resume is not up to date, i am not sure where you are from but websites like www.seek.com.au have a good tool to develop your resume.
With out trying to be rude, i am also guessing you dont have many skills or a lot of experience, so my advice would be to sell your life experiences to them let them know that If they give you a chance to prove yourself to them they will not be disapointed, and that you know you will try %110 as you know that you do not want to be a bum anymore.
I would also suggest to wear the nicest clothing you have if you get an interview.
I hope that helps.
My best advice is to listen closely and don't be afraid to ask questions, but never question your bosses authority. He's in charge. Do everything with enthusiasm. Show up on time ready to work and do every task, no matter what it is, to the best of your ability. Take pride in a job well done.
lmfao. i agree. what does this have to do with immigration?
it's called apply
1) Don't say: ';Dawgs';.
2) Make sure what you say is grammatically correct and is spelled right if written.
3) For now, use your paycheck on bare necessities and put the rest in a savings account or in your shoes at least. As you continue to get more and more in your savings, you'll have more room to buy things for yourself.
4) Work hard and go up that ladder. Earn promotions and salary raises. You might find yourself sipping pina coladas on a cruise if it goes well (maybe in a decade or two).
What does this have to do with immigration?
This can't be real right?
First and foremost you'll go through cultural shock.
Followed by discrimination,bias stares, and not to forget HUMILIATION!
But now after this concept of shutting down the U.S./MEXICO borders WE might have a chance they claim! Will see if this occurs,or if they are just thinking wishfully for a new type of manifestation of replacements such as us!
See. Just like the first two answerer's who have too give out very political correctness for having had hidden agendas within their judging of anyone who might be different.
P.S. A good attitude will do wonders too if you so happen to come across down to earth people!
Can you give me advice about getting a private student loan?
You can look for ways of getting a private student loan and this private student loan will need to be from a recognized loan agency. You should investigate the many possibilities before you select one at random. You should also see what the differences between a federal student loan and a private student loan are. Knowing these differences can be of help when you are trying to decide on an appropriate private student loan.
Some of the main differences that you will find will include having your loan approved of in minutes of the private student loan. With the federal student aid programs you need to wait until your loan application has been looked over. Once the loan has been passed in the private student loan you will need to wait only about a week to get the first of the funds.
This funds payment will take longer in the federal government loans. In the federal student loans you need to fill out the FAFSA form. Once this form has been approved of you will then be able to apply for the other student loans that you want. This is not the case with the private student loan. You can of course apply for the FAFSA form so that you are still eligible for other aid and for grants too.
To read the full article see:
http://www.shops-flower.com/1/studentloa鈥?/a>Can you give me advice about getting a private student loan?
Maybe you can try below website to get the information you need. It's about student loans articles for your second opinion.Can you give me advice about getting a private student loan?
yes. Remember that you have to pay it back. Many students lose sight of that as they borrow borrow borrow and then end up $50-100,000 in debt.
private loans are dispursed based on credit scores and are often at a much higher interest rate than federal loans. not everyone will be eligible for private loans. if this is the only way to fund your education, be sure to check around at different banks to shop for the best interest rate and take out as little as possible this way. it's just so much more costly in the long run. Check out fastweb.com for scholarships to apply for. That's free money you don't have to pay back after graduation. Good luck!wet eyeshadow
Some of the main differences that you will find will include having your loan approved of in minutes of the private student loan. With the federal student aid programs you need to wait until your loan application has been looked over. Once the loan has been passed in the private student loan you will need to wait only about a week to get the first of the funds.
This funds payment will take longer in the federal government loans. In the federal student loans you need to fill out the FAFSA form. Once this form has been approved of you will then be able to apply for the other student loans that you want. This is not the case with the private student loan. You can of course apply for the FAFSA form so that you are still eligible for other aid and for grants too.
To read the full article see:
http://www.shops-flower.com/1/studentloa鈥?/a>Can you give me advice about getting a private student loan?
Maybe you can try below website to get the information you need. It's about student loans articles for your second opinion.Can you give me advice about getting a private student loan?
yes. Remember that you have to pay it back. Many students lose sight of that as they borrow borrow borrow and then end up $50-100,000 in debt.
private loans are dispursed based on credit scores and are often at a much higher interest rate than federal loans. not everyone will be eligible for private loans. if this is the only way to fund your education, be sure to check around at different banks to shop for the best interest rate and take out as little as possible this way. it's just so much more costly in the long run. Check out fastweb.com for scholarships to apply for. That's free money you don't have to pay back after graduation. Good luck!
Need advice on how to get a boyfriend and soon.?
I am a 15 year old teen going into 10th grade. I've only had 2 boyfriend my whole life and I have never been kissed nor have i kissed a boy yet. I'm really worried that I can't get a boyfriend that is into me and I am into him. Everyone tells me to be myself but me being myself is a band geek with a very dark past and many trust issues. My trust issues come from being molested when I was about 7 my grandfather on my mothers side molested me. I've been having touble finding a boyfriend for the past year and I just feel totally unattractive. I am not the most attractive girl in the world i am 165 lbs and I always feel fat because i am surrounded with beautiful people who are only 100-115 pounds. I have curves and a little bit of a poochy belly but most of it was skin from when i lost weight. I have major emotional problems because I used to be a cutter due to family and school problems. I just feel like I've had so many issues people are afraid of me. But i've ironed all my demons!Need advice on how to get a boyfriend and soon.?
Sounds like it is time for a makeover to let your outside reflect the new inner you.
Ask someone to go shopping with you for a new outfit, somebody whose style and sense of fashion you have admired. Before you go shopping get together and look through magazines and point out the fashions you do %26amp; don't like. This way you shopping partner can have some type of idea of your sense of style.
Make it a fun day. Try on everything that you possibly can try on. Even the things that you would not normally touch with a ten foot pole. Laugh it up and enjoy yourself.
A new hairstyle for the new you could be just the ticket. Change the color. Shorten it, get extensions. Have fun with it.
Congratulations on ironing out your demons. Now you can really concentrate on your relationship to yourself. You mentioned that the skinny girls always attract the guys. This can seem true but it is not written in stone that bigger girls can't find nice guys. It's all about your confidence levels and how much you respect yourself. The message you send out is the first thing that people notice. Not if you are skinny or bigger. Its about confidence.
Time to rethink your attitude to yourself. I can count half a dozen negative comments about yourself in your post and there are only about 200 words in the post! You have to find a way to be kinder to yourself. If you can't do that, why should anybody else? Every time you feel a negative opinion come out of your mouth or enter your mind you need to correct yourself. Its about re-educating your thinking for the better.
Don't expect sudden changes over night. Be patient with yourself. Years of negative thoughts are a hard habit to break. One step forward two steps back happens to everybody. Have faith in yourself. Accept the past and forgive yourself for what you cannot change. Look to your future with hope.
Best of Luck! Take CareNeed advice on how to get a boyfriend and soon.?
im 15 as well and havent had to many girlfriends myself. Anyways, dont be self consious and just go to different places and meet different guys.
';But i've ironed all my demons! ';
Apparently you havent. You seem to have a lot of self-esteem and insecurity issues. A boyfriend is not really going to make you feel better except for a short while.
I really dont know what effects molestation has, but it can certainly affect your ability to feel comfortable around people. I suggest you talk to either your parents or someone at school about counseling. There's a lot of help out there.
hang in there.
Best wishes!
heck no, don't just go to places and meet guys like whoever the hell said that. hey, band geeks can seriously end up being some of the sexiest and most successful ppl when it comes to relationships (and life), if you ask me. i would say try to get to know guys through common, positive interests. (ex. clubs) there are so many creeps out there who just want to use you.
first of all who cares about your weight I am 18 and 5'9'; 145 pounds built/ athletic and I have never had a girlfriend or been kissed either. So whats weight gotta do with anything, if you think that you r only attractive because someone is fit and has a six pack, then I would have girls all over me. I have trust issues as well and am really really shy, I feel sometimes that I am very unattractive and wonder why girls dont like me, so your not alone in this. I dont know what to say other then try to talk to guys, that have the same interests as you, haha coming from a guy who could never talk to any of his crushes, but hey there is someone out there for everyone so I am told
U sound like a great girl that any guy would easily like if they would just open their eyes. Im one of those idiots who always just look at how girls look, but from past experiences, i know better.
Heres what i would do, look for a good, honest guy u can just talk to, like a friend. Chances are he will see what a great person u are. Showing him u like him little by little could help.
Sounds like it is time for a makeover to let your outside reflect the new inner you.
Ask someone to go shopping with you for a new outfit, somebody whose style and sense of fashion you have admired. Before you go shopping get together and look through magazines and point out the fashions you do %26amp; don't like. This way you shopping partner can have some type of idea of your sense of style.
Make it a fun day. Try on everything that you possibly can try on. Even the things that you would not normally touch with a ten foot pole. Laugh it up and enjoy yourself.
A new hairstyle for the new you could be just the ticket. Change the color. Shorten it, get extensions. Have fun with it.
Congratulations on ironing out your demons. Now you can really concentrate on your relationship to yourself. You mentioned that the skinny girls always attract the guys. This can seem true but it is not written in stone that bigger girls can't find nice guys. It's all about your confidence levels and how much you respect yourself. The message you send out is the first thing that people notice. Not if you are skinny or bigger. Its about confidence.
Time to rethink your attitude to yourself. I can count half a dozen negative comments about yourself in your post and there are only about 200 words in the post! You have to find a way to be kinder to yourself. If you can't do that, why should anybody else? Every time you feel a negative opinion come out of your mouth or enter your mind you need to correct yourself. Its about re-educating your thinking for the better.
Don't expect sudden changes over night. Be patient with yourself. Years of negative thoughts are a hard habit to break. One step forward two steps back happens to everybody. Have faith in yourself. Accept the past and forgive yourself for what you cannot change. Look to your future with hope.
Best of Luck! Take CareNeed advice on how to get a boyfriend and soon.?
im 15 as well and havent had to many girlfriends myself. Anyways, dont be self consious and just go to different places and meet different guys.
';But i've ironed all my demons! ';
Apparently you havent. You seem to have a lot of self-esteem and insecurity issues. A boyfriend is not really going to make you feel better except for a short while.
I really dont know what effects molestation has, but it can certainly affect your ability to feel comfortable around people. I suggest you talk to either your parents or someone at school about counseling. There's a lot of help out there.
hang in there.
Best wishes!
heck no, don't just go to places and meet guys like whoever the hell said that. hey, band geeks can seriously end up being some of the sexiest and most successful ppl when it comes to relationships (and life), if you ask me. i would say try to get to know guys through common, positive interests. (ex. clubs) there are so many creeps out there who just want to use you.
first of all who cares about your weight I am 18 and 5'9'; 145 pounds built/ athletic and I have never had a girlfriend or been kissed either. So whats weight gotta do with anything, if you think that you r only attractive because someone is fit and has a six pack, then I would have girls all over me. I have trust issues as well and am really really shy, I feel sometimes that I am very unattractive and wonder why girls dont like me, so your not alone in this. I dont know what to say other then try to talk to guys, that have the same interests as you, haha coming from a guy who could never talk to any of his crushes, but hey there is someone out there for everyone so I am told
U sound like a great girl that any guy would easily like if they would just open their eyes. Im one of those idiots who always just look at how girls look, but from past experiences, i know better.
Heres what i would do, look for a good, honest guy u can just talk to, like a friend. Chances are he will see what a great person u are. Showing him u like him little by little could help.
Any advice on how to get my parents to let me date?
im real close, i just need a little advice;;Any advice on how to get my parents to let me date?
Start off by asking if you can have the boy/girl come over for dinner.
Start off by asking if you can have the boy/girl come over for dinner.
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