im real close, i just need a little advice;;Any advice on how to get my parents to let me date?
Start off by asking if you can have the boy/girl come over for dinner.
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Broken up..but i cant get over him!HELP!!advice?
me and my boyfriend for 6 months are broken up and i cant seem to get over him :( he was my first love and im still not over him. I broke up with him because he always would ditch me for his boys and go to the bars! and he moved away 3 weeks ago and i cant do long distnace!even when he was in town he would never make time for me! how do i get over him even tho he treated me like crap i still love him!!HelpBroken up..but i cant get over him!HELP!!advice?
Get out and start meeting new people. Also look at the relationship realistically and focus on the reasons why you all broke up. Also realize that you deserve better than him. It will take awhile but eventually you will get over him. In the meantime enjoy being single.Broken up..but i cant get over him!HELP!!advice?
idk...i have never understood that sort of thing...it is pure insanity...completely illogical...it is surreal and outside the realm of a reasoning mind
Get out and start meeting new people. Also look at the relationship realistically and focus on the reasons why you all broke up. Also realize that you deserve better than him. It will take awhile but eventually you will get over him. In the meantime enjoy being single.Broken up..but i cant get over him!HELP!!advice?
idk...i have never understood that sort of thing...it is pure insanity...completely illogical...it is surreal and outside the realm of a reasoning mind
How do i get this girl back(girl advice pls)?
im a 14 year old boy and i got into a fight with my girlfriend over her friend to me it seemed like her friend tried to shove religion down my throat and i tried to tell her so i wrote a note saying we need to seperate with her and i called back later and said forget the note and she said we are through and i hurt her how do i get her back plz im despret for a good answerHow do i get this girl back(girl advice pls)?
Ok, if you broke up with a girl because of her friend, that's just stupid. She is not going to get back together with you. What would you do if she dumped you because she didn't like your friend. You would be pissed. If you really want to get her back, then tell her you are sorry and wait a while. If she doesn't come around after a while, than to bad so sad.
Ok, if you broke up with a girl because of her friend, that's just stupid. She is not going to get back together with you. What would you do if she dumped you because she didn't like your friend. You would be pissed. If you really want to get her back, then tell her you are sorry and wait a while. If she doesn't come around after a while, than to bad so sad.
Any advice for an ex-bum who's just going to get a job?
Dawgs, I'm currently a bum who has not worked for 9 years, It's my first time to get a job and I don't know what to do, what to expect and everything else that goes on in a job. Give some some honest to goodness advice co'z I'm confuse; I still can't get get over myself for being bum, however I also need to work so that I can have some money.Any advice for an ex-bum who's just going to get a job?
If this is an immigration question.....stay where you are.
We really have no openings here for professional bums.Any advice for an ex-bum who's just going to get a job?
Agree; it's not an immigration question, of course.
However, my advice is, regardless of the job you're seeking, try to show that you're interested in the work, and that your addition to the employer will pay off in your attentiveness and willingness to work hard.
And good luck to you!
Don't work any longer than necessary to receive unemployment insurance and Social security disability! Good luck, you lucky bum!
The first thing you need to do is think about what you are good at, i.e are you good with people can you talk and build a relationship eaisly with others, or are you more of a soliatry person who finds their own company enought to get by.
If you are someone that gets on with people somthing like a sales job might be somewhere to start, either as a checkout person or a sales person.
If you are the other, maybe a job in the secuity industry, or a storesperson may be a good way to look.
Not having work for 9 years i am guessing that your resume is not up to date, i am not sure where you are from but websites like www.seek.com.au have a good tool to develop your resume.
With out trying to be rude, i am also guessing you dont have many skills or a lot of experience, so my advice would be to sell your life experiences to them let them know that If they give you a chance to prove yourself to them they will not be disapointed, and that you know you will try %110 as you know that you do not want to be a bum anymore.
I would also suggest to wear the nicest clothing you have if you get an interview.
I hope that helps.
My best advice is to listen closely and don't be afraid to ask questions, but never question your bosses authority. He's in charge. Do everything with enthusiasm. Show up on time ready to work and do every task, no matter what it is, to the best of your ability. Take pride in a job well done.
lmfao. i agree. what does this have to do with immigration?
it's called apply
1) Don't say: ';Dawgs';.
2) Make sure what you say is grammatically correct and is spelled right if written.
3) For now, use your paycheck on bare necessities and put the rest in a savings account or in your shoes at least. As you continue to get more and more in your savings, you'll have more room to buy things for yourself.
4) Work hard and go up that ladder. Earn promotions and salary raises. You might find yourself sipping pina coladas on a cruise if it goes well (maybe in a decade or two).
What does this have to do with immigration?
This can't be real right?
First and foremost you'll go through cultural shock.
Followed by discrimination,bias stares, and not to forget HUMILIATION!
But now after this concept of shutting down the U.S./MEXICO borders WE might have a chance they claim! Will see if this occurs,or if they are just thinking wishfully for a new type of manifestation of replacements such as us!
See. Just like the first two answerer's who have too give out very political correctness for having had hidden agendas within their judging of anyone who might be different.
P.S. A good attitude will do wonders too if you so happen to come across down to earth people!
If this is an immigration question.....stay where you are.
We really have no openings here for professional bums.Any advice for an ex-bum who's just going to get a job?
Agree; it's not an immigration question, of course.
However, my advice is, regardless of the job you're seeking, try to show that you're interested in the work, and that your addition to the employer will pay off in your attentiveness and willingness to work hard.
And good luck to you!
Don't work any longer than necessary to receive unemployment insurance and Social security disability! Good luck, you lucky bum!
The first thing you need to do is think about what you are good at, i.e are you good with people can you talk and build a relationship eaisly with others, or are you more of a soliatry person who finds their own company enought to get by.
If you are someone that gets on with people somthing like a sales job might be somewhere to start, either as a checkout person or a sales person.
If you are the other, maybe a job in the secuity industry, or a storesperson may be a good way to look.
Not having work for 9 years i am guessing that your resume is not up to date, i am not sure where you are from but websites like www.seek.com.au have a good tool to develop your resume.
With out trying to be rude, i am also guessing you dont have many skills or a lot of experience, so my advice would be to sell your life experiences to them let them know that If they give you a chance to prove yourself to them they will not be disapointed, and that you know you will try %110 as you know that you do not want to be a bum anymore.
I would also suggest to wear the nicest clothing you have if you get an interview.
I hope that helps.
My best advice is to listen closely and don't be afraid to ask questions, but never question your bosses authority. He's in charge. Do everything with enthusiasm. Show up on time ready to work and do every task, no matter what it is, to the best of your ability. Take pride in a job well done.
lmfao. i agree. what does this have to do with immigration?
it's called apply
1) Don't say: ';Dawgs';.
2) Make sure what you say is grammatically correct and is spelled right if written.
3) For now, use your paycheck on bare necessities and put the rest in a savings account or in your shoes at least. As you continue to get more and more in your savings, you'll have more room to buy things for yourself.
4) Work hard and go up that ladder. Earn promotions and salary raises. You might find yourself sipping pina coladas on a cruise if it goes well (maybe in a decade or two).
What does this have to do with immigration?
This can't be real right?
First and foremost you'll go through cultural shock.
Followed by discrimination,bias stares, and not to forget HUMILIATION!
But now after this concept of shutting down the U.S./MEXICO borders WE might have a chance they claim! Will see if this occurs,or if they are just thinking wishfully for a new type of manifestation of replacements such as us!
See. Just like the first two answerer's who have too give out very political correctness for having had hidden agendas within their judging of anyone who might be different.
P.S. A good attitude will do wonders too if you so happen to come across down to earth people!
Can you give me advice about getting a private student loan?
You can look for ways of getting a private student loan and this private student loan will need to be from a recognized loan agency. You should investigate the many possibilities before you select one at random. You should also see what the differences between a federal student loan and a private student loan are. Knowing these differences can be of help when you are trying to decide on an appropriate private student loan.
Some of the main differences that you will find will include having your loan approved of in minutes of the private student loan. With the federal student aid programs you need to wait until your loan application has been looked over. Once the loan has been passed in the private student loan you will need to wait only about a week to get the first of the funds.
This funds payment will take longer in the federal government loans. In the federal student loans you need to fill out the FAFSA form. Once this form has been approved of you will then be able to apply for the other student loans that you want. This is not the case with the private student loan. You can of course apply for the FAFSA form so that you are still eligible for other aid and for grants too.
To read the full article see:
http://www.shops-flower.com/1/studentloa鈥?/a>Can you give me advice about getting a private student loan?
Maybe you can try below website to get the information you need. It's about student loans articles for your second opinion.Can you give me advice about getting a private student loan?
yes. Remember that you have to pay it back. Many students lose sight of that as they borrow borrow borrow and then end up $50-100,000 in debt.
private loans are dispursed based on credit scores and are often at a much higher interest rate than federal loans. not everyone will be eligible for private loans. if this is the only way to fund your education, be sure to check around at different banks to shop for the best interest rate and take out as little as possible this way. it's just so much more costly in the long run. Check out fastweb.com for scholarships to apply for. That's free money you don't have to pay back after graduation. Good luck!wet eyeshadow
Some of the main differences that you will find will include having your loan approved of in minutes of the private student loan. With the federal student aid programs you need to wait until your loan application has been looked over. Once the loan has been passed in the private student loan you will need to wait only about a week to get the first of the funds.
This funds payment will take longer in the federal government loans. In the federal student loans you need to fill out the FAFSA form. Once this form has been approved of you will then be able to apply for the other student loans that you want. This is not the case with the private student loan. You can of course apply for the FAFSA form so that you are still eligible for other aid and for grants too.
To read the full article see:
http://www.shops-flower.com/1/studentloa鈥?/a>Can you give me advice about getting a private student loan?
Maybe you can try below website to get the information you need. It's about student loans articles for your second opinion.Can you give me advice about getting a private student loan?
yes. Remember that you have to pay it back. Many students lose sight of that as they borrow borrow borrow and then end up $50-100,000 in debt.
private loans are dispursed based on credit scores and are often at a much higher interest rate than federal loans. not everyone will be eligible for private loans. if this is the only way to fund your education, be sure to check around at different banks to shop for the best interest rate and take out as little as possible this way. it's just so much more costly in the long run. Check out fastweb.com for scholarships to apply for. That's free money you don't have to pay back after graduation. Good luck!
Need advice on how to get a boyfriend and soon.?
I am a 15 year old teen going into 10th grade. I've only had 2 boyfriend my whole life and I have never been kissed nor have i kissed a boy yet. I'm really worried that I can't get a boyfriend that is into me and I am into him. Everyone tells me to be myself but me being myself is a band geek with a very dark past and many trust issues. My trust issues come from being molested when I was about 7 my grandfather on my mothers side molested me. I've been having touble finding a boyfriend for the past year and I just feel totally unattractive. I am not the most attractive girl in the world i am 165 lbs and I always feel fat because i am surrounded with beautiful people who are only 100-115 pounds. I have curves and a little bit of a poochy belly but most of it was skin from when i lost weight. I have major emotional problems because I used to be a cutter due to family and school problems. I just feel like I've had so many issues people are afraid of me. But i've ironed all my demons!Need advice on how to get a boyfriend and soon.?
Sounds like it is time for a makeover to let your outside reflect the new inner you.
Ask someone to go shopping with you for a new outfit, somebody whose style and sense of fashion you have admired. Before you go shopping get together and look through magazines and point out the fashions you do %26amp; don't like. This way you shopping partner can have some type of idea of your sense of style.
Make it a fun day. Try on everything that you possibly can try on. Even the things that you would not normally touch with a ten foot pole. Laugh it up and enjoy yourself.
A new hairstyle for the new you could be just the ticket. Change the color. Shorten it, get extensions. Have fun with it.
Congratulations on ironing out your demons. Now you can really concentrate on your relationship to yourself. You mentioned that the skinny girls always attract the guys. This can seem true but it is not written in stone that bigger girls can't find nice guys. It's all about your confidence levels and how much you respect yourself. The message you send out is the first thing that people notice. Not if you are skinny or bigger. Its about confidence.
Time to rethink your attitude to yourself. I can count half a dozen negative comments about yourself in your post and there are only about 200 words in the post! You have to find a way to be kinder to yourself. If you can't do that, why should anybody else? Every time you feel a negative opinion come out of your mouth or enter your mind you need to correct yourself. Its about re-educating your thinking for the better.
Don't expect sudden changes over night. Be patient with yourself. Years of negative thoughts are a hard habit to break. One step forward two steps back happens to everybody. Have faith in yourself. Accept the past and forgive yourself for what you cannot change. Look to your future with hope.
Best of Luck! Take CareNeed advice on how to get a boyfriend and soon.?
im 15 as well and havent had to many girlfriends myself. Anyways, dont be self consious and just go to different places and meet different guys.
';But i've ironed all my demons! ';
Apparently you havent. You seem to have a lot of self-esteem and insecurity issues. A boyfriend is not really going to make you feel better except for a short while.
I really dont know what effects molestation has, but it can certainly affect your ability to feel comfortable around people. I suggest you talk to either your parents or someone at school about counseling. There's a lot of help out there.
hang in there.
Best wishes!
heck no, don't just go to places and meet guys like whoever the hell said that. hey, band geeks can seriously end up being some of the sexiest and most successful ppl when it comes to relationships (and life), if you ask me. i would say try to get to know guys through common, positive interests. (ex. clubs) there are so many creeps out there who just want to use you.
first of all who cares about your weight I am 18 and 5'9'; 145 pounds built/ athletic and I have never had a girlfriend or been kissed either. So whats weight gotta do with anything, if you think that you r only attractive because someone is fit and has a six pack, then I would have girls all over me. I have trust issues as well and am really really shy, I feel sometimes that I am very unattractive and wonder why girls dont like me, so your not alone in this. I dont know what to say other then try to talk to guys, that have the same interests as you, haha coming from a guy who could never talk to any of his crushes, but hey there is someone out there for everyone so I am told
U sound like a great girl that any guy would easily like if they would just open their eyes. Im one of those idiots who always just look at how girls look, but from past experiences, i know better.
Heres what i would do, look for a good, honest guy u can just talk to, like a friend. Chances are he will see what a great person u are. Showing him u like him little by little could help.
Sounds like it is time for a makeover to let your outside reflect the new inner you.
Ask someone to go shopping with you for a new outfit, somebody whose style and sense of fashion you have admired. Before you go shopping get together and look through magazines and point out the fashions you do %26amp; don't like. This way you shopping partner can have some type of idea of your sense of style.
Make it a fun day. Try on everything that you possibly can try on. Even the things that you would not normally touch with a ten foot pole. Laugh it up and enjoy yourself.
A new hairstyle for the new you could be just the ticket. Change the color. Shorten it, get extensions. Have fun with it.
Congratulations on ironing out your demons. Now you can really concentrate on your relationship to yourself. You mentioned that the skinny girls always attract the guys. This can seem true but it is not written in stone that bigger girls can't find nice guys. It's all about your confidence levels and how much you respect yourself. The message you send out is the first thing that people notice. Not if you are skinny or bigger. Its about confidence.
Time to rethink your attitude to yourself. I can count half a dozen negative comments about yourself in your post and there are only about 200 words in the post! You have to find a way to be kinder to yourself. If you can't do that, why should anybody else? Every time you feel a negative opinion come out of your mouth or enter your mind you need to correct yourself. Its about re-educating your thinking for the better.
Don't expect sudden changes over night. Be patient with yourself. Years of negative thoughts are a hard habit to break. One step forward two steps back happens to everybody. Have faith in yourself. Accept the past and forgive yourself for what you cannot change. Look to your future with hope.
Best of Luck! Take CareNeed advice on how to get a boyfriend and soon.?
im 15 as well and havent had to many girlfriends myself. Anyways, dont be self consious and just go to different places and meet different guys.
';But i've ironed all my demons! ';
Apparently you havent. You seem to have a lot of self-esteem and insecurity issues. A boyfriend is not really going to make you feel better except for a short while.
I really dont know what effects molestation has, but it can certainly affect your ability to feel comfortable around people. I suggest you talk to either your parents or someone at school about counseling. There's a lot of help out there.
hang in there.
Best wishes!
heck no, don't just go to places and meet guys like whoever the hell said that. hey, band geeks can seriously end up being some of the sexiest and most successful ppl when it comes to relationships (and life), if you ask me. i would say try to get to know guys through common, positive interests. (ex. clubs) there are so many creeps out there who just want to use you.
first of all who cares about your weight I am 18 and 5'9'; 145 pounds built/ athletic and I have never had a girlfriend or been kissed either. So whats weight gotta do with anything, if you think that you r only attractive because someone is fit and has a six pack, then I would have girls all over me. I have trust issues as well and am really really shy, I feel sometimes that I am very unattractive and wonder why girls dont like me, so your not alone in this. I dont know what to say other then try to talk to guys, that have the same interests as you, haha coming from a guy who could never talk to any of his crushes, but hey there is someone out there for everyone so I am told
U sound like a great girl that any guy would easily like if they would just open their eyes. Im one of those idiots who always just look at how girls look, but from past experiences, i know better.
Heres what i would do, look for a good, honest guy u can just talk to, like a friend. Chances are he will see what a great person u are. Showing him u like him little by little could help.
Any advice on how to get my parents to let me date?
im real close, i just need a little advice;;Any advice on how to get my parents to let me date?
Start off by asking if you can have the boy/girl come over for dinner.
Start off by asking if you can have the boy/girl come over for dinner.
Work advice please? Don't get along with boss...need new job...?
So, I work at a retail store and I really would like to be transferred to another location. I don't get along with my boss, and would rather not work for him, but would like to keep my job. If i wanted to, I could have the opportunity to transfer to another location in the same city. I can only transfer with the boss's permission and referral. How can I go about asking my boss to refer me when he already knows we don't get along and without insulting him by saying i would like to leave?Work advice please? Don't get along with boss...need new job...?
Just ask him......he doesn't need to know why.........if he asks just say its closer to home, church, school, club or tavern.......anything.......and leave it at that........Work advice please? Don't get along with boss...need new job...?
Learn what's called ';conversational hypnosis'; and MAKE him say yes.
There's a ton of tricks you can employ when trying to get your boss or anyone else to do or say what you want them to, most of the time without their even realizing that you're doing it. There's a bunch of free info about that on this site: http://www.hypnosispain.com/power-of-conversational-hypnosis-review/
I just got promoted to a better paying position using stuff I learned from the course, not to mention how much it has helped me manage my kids!
Best of luck,
Bob
There is always affiliate marketing , its basically sales online or theres adsense and google adwords. All are really great at bringing in anywhere from 500-20,000 a month .. Here is a step by step guide how to get started http://www.maverickmoneymakingcareer.com/ i did this course and am making about 5-6k a month .. It does take a lot of work , but if you willing to put forth the effort you can make a killing , plus no boss and set your own hours ..
make something up..say that the other location is more convenient to you cause of distance or because its near another place and would save you gas...just something short and sweet like that...
Tell him you are moving..... closer to that store.
Just ask him......he doesn't need to know why.........if he asks just say its closer to home, church, school, club or tavern.......anything.......and leave it at that........Work advice please? Don't get along with boss...need new job...?
Learn what's called ';conversational hypnosis'; and MAKE him say yes.
There's a ton of tricks you can employ when trying to get your boss or anyone else to do or say what you want them to, most of the time without their even realizing that you're doing it. There's a bunch of free info about that on this site: http://www.hypnosispain.com/power-of-conversational-hypnosis-review/
I just got promoted to a better paying position using stuff I learned from the course, not to mention how much it has helped me manage my kids!
Best of luck,
Bob
There is always affiliate marketing , its basically sales online or theres adsense and google adwords. All are really great at bringing in anywhere from 500-20,000 a month .. Here is a step by step guide how to get started http://www.maverickmoneymakingcareer.com/ i did this course and am making about 5-6k a month .. It does take a lot of work , but if you willing to put forth the effort you can make a killing , plus no boss and set your own hours ..
make something up..say that the other location is more convenient to you cause of distance or because its near another place and would save you gas...just something short and sweet like that...
Tell him you are moving..... closer to that store.
Need advice on what to get for a baby..?
Im going to be going to my sister in laws after new year. my son will be 8 months so to big for a moses basket now. I have to travel by coach so I was wondering what light weight travel cot I could get or if there is anything else I could use. all advice appreciated.Need advice on what to get for a baby..?
We love this %26amp; it's only 3kgs %26amp; folds away very compact - http://www.urbanbaby.com.au/epages/ecomm鈥?/a>
There are others around which are cheaper but this style I think would be handy in most traveling situations.
We love this %26amp; it's only 3kgs %26amp; folds away very compact - http://www.urbanbaby.com.au/epages/ecomm鈥?/a>
There are others around which are cheaper but this style I think would be handy in most traveling situations.
Any advice on how to get better at guitar?
i have been playing for a few months...it seems i should b playing a lil better than i do know..what should i do to get better..
i no a few chords
can read tabs
I know two scalesAny advice on how to get better at guitar?
If you aren't taking any professional training, I wold suggest you do so. This is, in my opinion, a really good way to learn how to play.
If you can't do that, try find somebody who can play, who knows all you need to know and ask them to help you out. My dad taught me how to play guitar when I was little. So that can also be pretty helpful. But make sure the person knows what their talking about.
Other than the above, if you're trying to teach yourself, buy a guitar manual. They often have at bookstores. You'll have to practise really hard. Like they say: practice makes perfect.
Good luck! Wish you all the best :-)
-ZandyAny advice on how to get better at guitar?
GO TO GOOGLE
THEN TYPE HOW TO PLAY GUITAR BETER AND TA-DA
CHOSE WHATEVER
you should practice like an hour each day, every day working on a specific chord, tab or scale ( if i said something wrong sry i dont know music). keep practicing till u get the hang of them then learn new things, thats wot i do with karate and it works in four years i became a brown belt (which usually takes 6 years) and i still practice the stuff i learnt first ( 3 more exams and i am black belt yay for me ! :D)
practice, both my brother and my dad play guitar and they are both really good because they always practice
answer mine?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ak7PScSE3ti21MbQkELXARAazKIX;_ylv=3?qid=20090720092755AAZYwic
Get a teacher or a book on how to learn guitar. I also recommend you learn the actual notes of the guitar instead of the tab because people appreciate that more. Also, get a book with exercises that build finger strength and do them over and over because the real key to getting better happens during the boring and monotonous exercises. But trust me, they're worth it.
Hi. I've been playing guitar for a couple of years now and the best way to improve is to play songs you like. If you like the song your learning you tend to practice more and gradually you get better.
You can get lots of tab sheets on the internet if you google so you should be able to find a song you like which isn't too hard.
Hope this helps x
get guitar hero III for ps3. it is da bomb
You ';NO'; a few chords?
I think you should put your guitar down... and pick up a dictionary.
Learn more chords
Learn more scales
ANYONE can read TABS... give me a break.
Perhaps learn how to read MUSIC.
Work on theory...
learn the relationship between the chromatic scale and CHORDING.
Learn the cycle of 5ths (forward and backwards (fourths))
Go to websites with tutorials... THEGUITAR.NET for example.
Start ';working up'; tunes.... Using the chords and notes you've learned.
Finally TAKE SOME LESSONS... from a friend or a music teacher.
i no a few chords
can read tabs
I know two scalesAny advice on how to get better at guitar?
If you aren't taking any professional training, I wold suggest you do so. This is, in my opinion, a really good way to learn how to play.
If you can't do that, try find somebody who can play, who knows all you need to know and ask them to help you out. My dad taught me how to play guitar when I was little. So that can also be pretty helpful. But make sure the person knows what their talking about.
Other than the above, if you're trying to teach yourself, buy a guitar manual. They often have at bookstores. You'll have to practise really hard. Like they say: practice makes perfect.
Good luck! Wish you all the best :-)
-ZandyAny advice on how to get better at guitar?
GO TO GOOGLE
THEN TYPE HOW TO PLAY GUITAR BETER AND TA-DA
CHOSE WHATEVER
you should practice like an hour each day, every day working on a specific chord, tab or scale ( if i said something wrong sry i dont know music). keep practicing till u get the hang of them then learn new things, thats wot i do with karate and it works in four years i became a brown belt (which usually takes 6 years) and i still practice the stuff i learnt first ( 3 more exams and i am black belt yay for me ! :D)
practice, both my brother and my dad play guitar and they are both really good because they always practice
answer mine?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ak7PScSE3ti21MbQkELXARAazKIX;_ylv=3?qid=20090720092755AAZYwic
Get a teacher or a book on how to learn guitar. I also recommend you learn the actual notes of the guitar instead of the tab because people appreciate that more. Also, get a book with exercises that build finger strength and do them over and over because the real key to getting better happens during the boring and monotonous exercises. But trust me, they're worth it.
Hi. I've been playing guitar for a couple of years now and the best way to improve is to play songs you like. If you like the song your learning you tend to practice more and gradually you get better.
You can get lots of tab sheets on the internet if you google so you should be able to find a song you like which isn't too hard.
Hope this helps x
get guitar hero III for ps3. it is da bomb
You ';NO'; a few chords?
I think you should put your guitar down... and pick up a dictionary.
Learn more chords
Learn more scales
ANYONE can read TABS... give me a break.
Perhaps learn how to read MUSIC.
Work on theory...
learn the relationship between the chromatic scale and CHORDING.
Learn the cycle of 5ths (forward and backwards (fourths))
Go to websites with tutorials... THEGUITAR.NET for example.
Start ';working up'; tunes.... Using the chords and notes you've learned.
Finally TAKE SOME LESSONS... from a friend or a music teacher.
Is there any advice for a fat girl to get a boyfriend or look hotter?
Best PersonalityIs there any advice for a fat girl to get a boyfriend or look hotter?
You know i always say there is someone out there for someone no matter what you look like.Everyone has a soul mate you will find yours one day. Don't make yourself out to look like someone your really not just be yourself.Is there any advice for a fat girl to get a boyfriend or look hotter?
if you describe yourself as a fat girl, then you obviously aren't comfortable in your own skin. why don't you try exercising if you think you're fat? i don't think you should diet but do look at what you eat. try to eat healthier and in smaller portion and drink lots of water. it's not your weight that keeps the guys away, it's probably your attitude and lack of confidence.
I think it shouldnt matter about someone size. If a girl carries themselves with respect and high self esteem, others are automatically attracted
How I wish women would stop worring so much about appearances! Women aren't just bodies but whole persons. And there is something else besides physical beauty: feminity and sexyness and that's something that have nothing to de with just beauty. As a matter of fact, there are many beautiful women that aren't femenine or sexy.
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The first thing is that you have to lower your standards some. If you're expecting to get some thin cute guy it's probably not going to happen and you're setting yourself up for a let down.
Have self confidence.
Go to expensive store that has free personal shoppers ( like Sak's) and ask them to dress you. (you don't have to buy anything you can copy the look at your normal store).
its not a matter of your size, its all in how you present yourself, be sure to wear clothing that ';Fits'; and even accentuates your best features, self esteem and confidence is a major roll in appearing attractive, be sure you have a good attitude and there will be a guy for you, dont make the mistake of using sex to get a bf, chances are it wont be a lasting relationship if you do.
Best of luck
dont worry about your weight, and wear casual, conservative clothing. Keep an open mind and have a sense of humor. if you send me a pic, I can give you better tips....
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First of all stop calling yourself fat... if not for you for everyone around (us) who can't handle it...hahaha...I know how frustrating it is, we can be the best people in the whole world and we let our insides shine, because honestly our outsides leave something to be desired.... Here is fat camp info:
Dress to your body not your size... there are all kinds of large women clothing stores... but not all women have the same body even under our extra pounds...Find your best qualities... enhance them, don't parade them.... we are fat right.... we have larger boobs than most but it doesn't mean we need to let the girls fly out and around... keep it classy and MAKE SURE IT FITS.... This is so important, if you have to sit a certain way or not sit at all you are not comfortable and that it real obvious... men and all the other women can tell.... be comfortable in your skin...and lastly, don't make jokes about yourself being overweight... that is the biggest turn off in the world... it may be funny but save the laugh, chalk it up to self respect... Lastly, take your time when shopping and even though the newest fashions are out doesn't mean you have to wear them.... we all remember the tummy revealing shirts.... and I seen women who should have never been allowed to purchase them, but sure as sh*it they bought and wore them.... last of all... work on you weight... not for physical appearance, do reading, get an understanding of what that excess weight is doing to you inside... that is what I did and 68 pounds later I am closer to my goal everyday.... love yourself enough to lose it for you...Good luck
lose weight, you gotta exercise to do that..get off the couch!
yes look for someone that does not care how you look for example i ndont judge people from the outside only from the inside
If you have a cute face..you should be able to find guys.
Carry yourself with confidence.
Don't wear clothes that show too many ROLLS
Find a hobby to help you start losing weight: salsa dancing, running, riding a bike, lots of sex
anything you like doing
talk to black and latino guys, they like big women and are more likely to have the tools to handle the job.
Exercise...?
it shouldn't matter how you look, go out by u a new outfit.it's on how you carry your self that makes you bueatiful.. sexy..
Be outgoing and fun to be around. Avoid being shy or ';too friendly';, don't want to be known as a **** either. Don't make fat jokes about yourself. Dress nice and take care of yourself. And make sure you're not judging others for the way they look, as obviously you're judging yourself harshly. Good luck!
Ok i use to feel the same way and i still kinda do but just be ur self talk to people. just be who you are and some one will like you for that
There are many men out there who love a girl with a ';few extra pounds'; on her, so don't worry too much about your weight. Work on increasing your confidence level and self-esteem instead.
Also, it's been my experience that most women think of themselves as ';fat'; or overweight when they're really NOT.
In any case, you may want to check out dating sites devoted to ';bbw'; or ';plus-size'; women if you're interested in meeting a man who doesn't care how much you weigh.
As far as looking ';hotter'; goes.....well, that may attract the wrong type of attention sometimes, so be careful. Best advise is......JUST BE YOURSELF! :)
Yes, start exercising. It will make you feel better about yourself. You will have more confidence. You confidence will attract guys.
Show a little self confidence, dress accordingly and enjoy who you are.
loose weight? ha ha ha.............some bigger girls are very attractive........it has to do with the way you carry yourself.............no pun intened...............LMAO............it all has to do w/ attitude, and self confidence...........that's what makes one attractive.wet eyeshadow
You know i always say there is someone out there for someone no matter what you look like.Everyone has a soul mate you will find yours one day. Don't make yourself out to look like someone your really not just be yourself.Is there any advice for a fat girl to get a boyfriend or look hotter?
if you describe yourself as a fat girl, then you obviously aren't comfortable in your own skin. why don't you try exercising if you think you're fat? i don't think you should diet but do look at what you eat. try to eat healthier and in smaller portion and drink lots of water. it's not your weight that keeps the guys away, it's probably your attitude and lack of confidence.
I think it shouldnt matter about someone size. If a girl carries themselves with respect and high self esteem, others are automatically attracted
How I wish women would stop worring so much about appearances! Women aren't just bodies but whole persons. And there is something else besides physical beauty: feminity and sexyness and that's something that have nothing to de with just beauty. As a matter of fact, there are many beautiful women that aren't femenine or sexy.
E MAIL ME
use with caution
http://andycaine.soultouch.hop.clickbank鈥?/a>
The first thing is that you have to lower your standards some. If you're expecting to get some thin cute guy it's probably not going to happen and you're setting yourself up for a let down.
Have self confidence.
Go to expensive store that has free personal shoppers ( like Sak's) and ask them to dress you. (you don't have to buy anything you can copy the look at your normal store).
its not a matter of your size, its all in how you present yourself, be sure to wear clothing that ';Fits'; and even accentuates your best features, self esteem and confidence is a major roll in appearing attractive, be sure you have a good attitude and there will be a guy for you, dont make the mistake of using sex to get a bf, chances are it wont be a lasting relationship if you do.
Best of luck
dont worry about your weight, and wear casual, conservative clothing. Keep an open mind and have a sense of humor. if you send me a pic, I can give you better tips....
vote for me for best answer
First of all stop calling yourself fat... if not for you for everyone around (us) who can't handle it...hahaha...I know how frustrating it is, we can be the best people in the whole world and we let our insides shine, because honestly our outsides leave something to be desired.... Here is fat camp info:
Dress to your body not your size... there are all kinds of large women clothing stores... but not all women have the same body even under our extra pounds...Find your best qualities... enhance them, don't parade them.... we are fat right.... we have larger boobs than most but it doesn't mean we need to let the girls fly out and around... keep it classy and MAKE SURE IT FITS.... This is so important, if you have to sit a certain way or not sit at all you are not comfortable and that it real obvious... men and all the other women can tell.... be comfortable in your skin...and lastly, don't make jokes about yourself being overweight... that is the biggest turn off in the world... it may be funny but save the laugh, chalk it up to self respect... Lastly, take your time when shopping and even though the newest fashions are out doesn't mean you have to wear them.... we all remember the tummy revealing shirts.... and I seen women who should have never been allowed to purchase them, but sure as sh*it they bought and wore them.... last of all... work on you weight... not for physical appearance, do reading, get an understanding of what that excess weight is doing to you inside... that is what I did and 68 pounds later I am closer to my goal everyday.... love yourself enough to lose it for you...Good luck
lose weight, you gotta exercise to do that..get off the couch!
yes look for someone that does not care how you look for example i ndont judge people from the outside only from the inside
If you have a cute face..you should be able to find guys.
Carry yourself with confidence.
Don't wear clothes that show too many ROLLS
Find a hobby to help you start losing weight: salsa dancing, running, riding a bike, lots of sex
anything you like doing
talk to black and latino guys, they like big women and are more likely to have the tools to handle the job.
Exercise...?
it shouldn't matter how you look, go out by u a new outfit.it's on how you carry your self that makes you bueatiful.. sexy..
Be outgoing and fun to be around. Avoid being shy or ';too friendly';, don't want to be known as a **** either. Don't make fat jokes about yourself. Dress nice and take care of yourself. And make sure you're not judging others for the way they look, as obviously you're judging yourself harshly. Good luck!
Ok i use to feel the same way and i still kinda do but just be ur self talk to people. just be who you are and some one will like you for that
There are many men out there who love a girl with a ';few extra pounds'; on her, so don't worry too much about your weight. Work on increasing your confidence level and self-esteem instead.
Also, it's been my experience that most women think of themselves as ';fat'; or overweight when they're really NOT.
In any case, you may want to check out dating sites devoted to ';bbw'; or ';plus-size'; women if you're interested in meeting a man who doesn't care how much you weigh.
As far as looking ';hotter'; goes.....well, that may attract the wrong type of attention sometimes, so be careful. Best advise is......JUST BE YOURSELF! :)
Yes, start exercising. It will make you feel better about yourself. You will have more confidence. You confidence will attract guys.
Show a little self confidence, dress accordingly and enjoy who you are.
loose weight? ha ha ha.............some bigger girls are very attractive........it has to do with the way you carry yourself.............no pun intened...............LMAO............it all has to do w/ attitude, and self confidence...........that's what makes one attractive.
I'm 14 and I can't seem to get a girlfriend, does anyone have any advice?
I just don't understand why I can't get a girlfriend I'm always nice to every girl I meetI'm 14 and I can't seem to get a girlfriend, does anyone have any advice?
Love comes when you least expect it. So my advice to you is to stop looking and focus on your school work. Who knows, if you're nice to girls, one might notice.I'm 14 and I can't seem to get a girlfriend, does anyone have any advice?
Nice guys finish last.
Your only 14 dont worry about it, the right one will come along eventually.
thats the problem your nice.
dont worry about dating.
your 14.
you have a lot of stuff to learn about the females.
maybe your not good looking..i know people say its not all about looks but i mean,if you liked somones personality but thought they were hideous then im sure u wouldnt go out with em
Love comes when you least expect it. So my advice to you is to stop looking and focus on your school work. Who knows, if you're nice to girls, one might notice.I'm 14 and I can't seem to get a girlfriend, does anyone have any advice?
Nice guys finish last.
Your only 14 dont worry about it, the right one will come along eventually.
thats the problem your nice.
dont worry about dating.
your 14.
you have a lot of stuff to learn about the females.
maybe your not good looking..i know people say its not all about looks but i mean,if you liked somones personality but thought they were hideous then im sure u wouldnt go out with em
What the best advice that you have gotten on this board?
Parenting or otherwise. I assume thats why we all keep coming back right? The wisdom of our fellow peers. (i'm not sure if that is sarcastic or not just yet, so take it as you like)
Or do we just like the fights? ;-)What the best advice that you have gotten on this board?
The best advice I have gotten has regarded in how to teach my children right from wrong, how to speak on my toddler's level so he can understand me and how to practice keeping a calm temperament. I have also received great wisdom on positive reinforcement, which was something I never used until the last few months. It's made a big impact on my son's behavior :) He is still given his consequences for misbehavior, but I learned that it is possible to head off unwanted behavior before it starts and that spanking is not the answer for all situations. I have learned a lot to be honest. It's amazing what you can learn from a message board on Yahoo!
The best pieces of advice have come from my contacts who are supportive, real moms who face the same challenges I do day to day. I've been very encouraged through them :) Thanks ya'll!
*I'll second what Carrie has said about looking for specific people's input. It's always interesting to see how the people I hold respect for answer the questions. Sometimes the answers really make me think and reexamine myself and other times it further reinforces why I believe what I believe.
.......Although some of the fights are pretty darn interesting too.... ;-)What the best advice that you have gotten on this board?
how to fix my car and how to deal with trolls, lol. of course i wouldn't need the latter advice if i weren't on here in the first place.
this particular section i find fascinating not for the advice, per se, but for the range of opinions and insights that come from people that I normally wouldn't interact with in my real life. i love the exchange of opinions with people with whom, on the face of it, i have virtually nothing in common and who probably wouldn't give me the time of day in real life ... and i love finding out that they have a perspective that's interesting and worthwhile to me. i often leave this board thinking that it's unfortunate that most of us live lives surrounded mostly by people like us or who agree with us.
i know that's not really what a q%26amp;a board is meant for, but that's what i get out of it.
and yes, i also definitely seek out the q%26amp;as of specific people who consistently give mature and interesting input, including you and some others who have answered this question (and others, as well). and every once in a while i pick a fight with a troll just for fun. i like to pretend i'm more mature than i actually am.
1 due: took my answer. If you don't have a good network at home of people to ask ';dumb'; questions to than this is the place. I was kinda lost last year. I did need some place to just see that I am not crazy and, consequently have been able to be calmer around the house and put my foot down better sometimes and lighten up others. It's nice. There are some people that I really look at to see what they think about certain subjects. Then you still get to do things your way but with a better outlook on the situation or a totally new way of approaching things. Sometimes you just realize ';I was right'; haha.
I like the fights;-)
Really I have gotten some great advice from this board. There are certain people who answer's I like to read (yours included!) and I find myself looking for those specific ones.
Can't remember a specific time of great advice. Maybe I'll look back through my questions and get back on that.
I'm not sure if it's advice I've actually gotten, but more like comforted (kinda cheesy, I know...) It seems whatever kind of question or worry I may have, there's a bunch of other women on here asking the same question so I don't feel like I'm alone!
I mostly like the comfort of knowing that other people have the same questions and worries as me and I value the insight of other peoples answers......some I would never have though of on my own.
I( had a lot of good advice on here.i am not sure what the best was.I think it was about my depression.
Or do we just like the fights? ;-)What the best advice that you have gotten on this board?
The best advice I have gotten has regarded in how to teach my children right from wrong, how to speak on my toddler's level so he can understand me and how to practice keeping a calm temperament. I have also received great wisdom on positive reinforcement, which was something I never used until the last few months. It's made a big impact on my son's behavior :) He is still given his consequences for misbehavior, but I learned that it is possible to head off unwanted behavior before it starts and that spanking is not the answer for all situations. I have learned a lot to be honest. It's amazing what you can learn from a message board on Yahoo!
The best pieces of advice have come from my contacts who are supportive, real moms who face the same challenges I do day to day. I've been very encouraged through them :) Thanks ya'll!
*I'll second what Carrie has said about looking for specific people's input. It's always interesting to see how the people I hold respect for answer the questions. Sometimes the answers really make me think and reexamine myself and other times it further reinforces why I believe what I believe.
.......Although some of the fights are pretty darn interesting too.... ;-)What the best advice that you have gotten on this board?
how to fix my car and how to deal with trolls, lol. of course i wouldn't need the latter advice if i weren't on here in the first place.
this particular section i find fascinating not for the advice, per se, but for the range of opinions and insights that come from people that I normally wouldn't interact with in my real life. i love the exchange of opinions with people with whom, on the face of it, i have virtually nothing in common and who probably wouldn't give me the time of day in real life ... and i love finding out that they have a perspective that's interesting and worthwhile to me. i often leave this board thinking that it's unfortunate that most of us live lives surrounded mostly by people like us or who agree with us.
i know that's not really what a q%26amp;a board is meant for, but that's what i get out of it.
and yes, i also definitely seek out the q%26amp;as of specific people who consistently give mature and interesting input, including you and some others who have answered this question (and others, as well). and every once in a while i pick a fight with a troll just for fun. i like to pretend i'm more mature than i actually am.
1 due: took my answer. If you don't have a good network at home of people to ask ';dumb'; questions to than this is the place. I was kinda lost last year. I did need some place to just see that I am not crazy and, consequently have been able to be calmer around the house and put my foot down better sometimes and lighten up others. It's nice. There are some people that I really look at to see what they think about certain subjects. Then you still get to do things your way but with a better outlook on the situation or a totally new way of approaching things. Sometimes you just realize ';I was right'; haha.
I like the fights;-)
Really I have gotten some great advice from this board. There are certain people who answer's I like to read (yours included!) and I find myself looking for those specific ones.
Can't remember a specific time of great advice. Maybe I'll look back through my questions and get back on that.
I'm not sure if it's advice I've actually gotten, but more like comforted (kinda cheesy, I know...) It seems whatever kind of question or worry I may have, there's a bunch of other women on here asking the same question so I don't feel like I'm alone!
I mostly like the comfort of knowing that other people have the same questions and worries as me and I value the insight of other peoples answers......some I would never have though of on my own.
I( had a lot of good advice on here.i am not sure what the best was.I think it was about my depression.
Guys, what advice do you have for me to get laid? I'm a 21-year-old virgin :(?
I want advice OTHER than ';get a prostitute';. I know I need to ';talk to a girl, ask her out and get to know her'; and all of that, yadda yadda yadda.
Any other advice?Guys, what advice do you have for me to get laid? I'm a 21-year-old virgin :(?
Well first, if you want to just for the purpose of getting laid, then I suggest u go think first about that first lol. Girls are more comfortable to have sex with a man that is a virgin because they can share the experience together. First, find a meaningful relationship with a girl that possesses the qualities u desire. If you don't know how to approach her, do this:
1) For about 1 week, do nice things to her. Hold the door for her, pull open her chair, comment on her shoes, shirt, ect. Make this a daily process so she gets used to it. It may take longer than a week
2) On the second week, try not to hold the door, pull her chair, ect. as much (Still do it) so it will leave her waiting for you.
3) On the third week, be nice to her again. This should get her to come up to you and ask you out. If she doesn't, just go and ask her. And don't crack up some stupid line like, ';Hey babe, get down here in 10 mins cuz im gonna take u out for dinner'; or something stupid like that. Be sweet and kind and honest and FUNNY. always remember to be funny. girls love boys that can crack a decent joke
ok so once u are dating her, take it veryyyy slow unless she wants to take it faster. BUT, always be sure you are ready for what she wants to do. If is bothers you, say NO. Take her out 4-5 times and call her everyday and be sweet to her, and compliment her, and say I LOVE YOU. Make her feel like a princess, but DO NOT shower her with gifts :) that will just make her spoiled and stupid..we girls tend to get like that
then, if she gives u the ';signal'; (usually body language) that she wants to take it further............. go for it!
(talk to her first. make sure she is alright about what u guys r gonna do)
kk soooooo good luck!
:)Guys, what advice do you have for me to get laid? I'm a 21-year-old virgin :(?
i guess you have to be hard up to vote for mccain/palin....
get your game on my man... open your eyes, your being noticed... look back when your gettin' looked at and go with your instincts... girls like confidence in a guy, show them who their dealing with ;-)
good luck!
i would say classes is best maybe ask her for paper or pencil or if she understood the lecture yesterday, im 22 and only been with 1 girl havent been laid for 4 years maybe 5 so its hard for me also :)
Dude, you'll never get laid with such a transparent disregard for women.
Go to a club and talk to some chicks there... im sixteen and thats how i lost my virginity... they all want your meat just talk to all of them and ull get one
My.Love.Is.Wicked was sending you mixed messages
Read the book ';Dating for Dummies'; I saw it while working at a bookstore. Im sure it must have some good tips in there
You are a pig!
XOXO
My.Love.Is.Wicked
Any other advice?Guys, what advice do you have for me to get laid? I'm a 21-year-old virgin :(?
Well first, if you want to just for the purpose of getting laid, then I suggest u go think first about that first lol. Girls are more comfortable to have sex with a man that is a virgin because they can share the experience together. First, find a meaningful relationship with a girl that possesses the qualities u desire. If you don't know how to approach her, do this:
1) For about 1 week, do nice things to her. Hold the door for her, pull open her chair, comment on her shoes, shirt, ect. Make this a daily process so she gets used to it. It may take longer than a week
2) On the second week, try not to hold the door, pull her chair, ect. as much (Still do it) so it will leave her waiting for you.
3) On the third week, be nice to her again. This should get her to come up to you and ask you out. If she doesn't, just go and ask her. And don't crack up some stupid line like, ';Hey babe, get down here in 10 mins cuz im gonna take u out for dinner'; or something stupid like that. Be sweet and kind and honest and FUNNY. always remember to be funny. girls love boys that can crack a decent joke
ok so once u are dating her, take it veryyyy slow unless she wants to take it faster. BUT, always be sure you are ready for what she wants to do. If is bothers you, say NO. Take her out 4-5 times and call her everyday and be sweet to her, and compliment her, and say I LOVE YOU. Make her feel like a princess, but DO NOT shower her with gifts :) that will just make her spoiled and stupid..we girls tend to get like that
then, if she gives u the ';signal'; (usually body language) that she wants to take it further............. go for it!
(talk to her first. make sure she is alright about what u guys r gonna do)
kk soooooo good luck!
:)Guys, what advice do you have for me to get laid? I'm a 21-year-old virgin :(?
i guess you have to be hard up to vote for mccain/palin....
get your game on my man... open your eyes, your being noticed... look back when your gettin' looked at and go with your instincts... girls like confidence in a guy, show them who their dealing with ;-)
good luck!
i would say classes is best maybe ask her for paper or pencil or if she understood the lecture yesterday, im 22 and only been with 1 girl havent been laid for 4 years maybe 5 so its hard for me also :)
Dude, you'll never get laid with such a transparent disregard for women.
Go to a club and talk to some chicks there... im sixteen and thats how i lost my virginity... they all want your meat just talk to all of them and ull get one
My.Love.Is.Wicked was sending you mixed messages
Read the book ';Dating for Dummies'; I saw it while working at a bookstore. Im sure it must have some good tips in there
You are a pig!
XOXO
My.Love.Is.Wicked
Help...i need all the love advice i can get!!!!?
thr this guy i like, and i really dunno if i hav a chance wit him , like its not like much girls think he's hot, i do, but he kinda has high standards.....and its not like im completly rough, cause like a few of his friends hav liked me in the past....but how do i find out before i make a move...and how do i make a move?Help...i need all the love advice i can get!!!!?
idkHelp...i need all the love advice i can get!!!!?
How about you just talk to him about how you feel and what you are thinking?
idkHelp...i need all the love advice i can get!!!!?
How about you just talk to him about how you feel and what you are thinking?
For music CD's that get dirty or scratched, what's the best cleaning advice?
i use skip doctor and it's great for repairing all but the deepest of scratches. i've repaired many music and cdrom discs for me and my friends...
http://www.digitalinnovations.com/For music CD's that get dirty or scratched, what's the best cleaning advice?
use furniture polish, it works most of the time., the wax in the polish fills in the scratch. or the classic toothpaste method.For music CD's that get dirty or scratched, what's the best cleaning advice?
theres this one machine that cleans and reduces scratches on cd's, but at the moment i cant remenber what the machine is called, but if you go to either walmart or target they should have the equipment there
When the cd is dirty, use rubbing alcohol, if it's scratched, throw it to the garbage can.
If they are dirty try a bit of rubbing alcohol w/ cotton balls And for scratched well that i dont know...
http://www.digitalinnovations.com/For music CD's that get dirty or scratched, what's the best cleaning advice?
use furniture polish, it works most of the time., the wax in the polish fills in the scratch. or the classic toothpaste method.For music CD's that get dirty or scratched, what's the best cleaning advice?
theres this one machine that cleans and reduces scratches on cd's, but at the moment i cant remenber what the machine is called, but if you go to either walmart or target they should have the equipment there
When the cd is dirty, use rubbing alcohol, if it's scratched, throw it to the garbage can.
If they are dirty try a bit of rubbing alcohol w/ cotton balls And for scratched well that i dont know...
What advice do you wish you'd gotten when you started college?
I teach a class that helps first-time college students adjust to college life, and am not sure what all information I should cover. My class has both non-traditional and traditional students. Any suggestions welcome- I'm open to talking about anything in the class.What advice do you wish you'd gotten when you started college?
Things you must do before graduating college:
1. Live on campus in the dorms
2. Study abroad for one semester
3. Join a student organization
4. Attend a popular sporting event on campus and cheer for your college team (if you have athletics on campus)
5. Visit the historical/significant places on campus that make your college unique
Advice:
1. Get good grades as a freshman! If you don't you will spend the next four years trying to overcome them.
2. Utilize your academic advisor!!
3. You are supposed to miss home, miss your family and question whether or not you made the right decision to attend your institution.
4. Don't worry. About 80% of college students change their major.
5. Before you give up and just stop attending class look into the withdrawl and incomplete options for courses. Again...if you get an ';F'; you will be kicking yourself for years.
6. All college students have personal issues. Visit your counseling services. You aren't crazy! They are there to help!!
7. Your campus Health Services has REAL doctors. Utilize them.What advice do you wish you'd gotten when you started college?
Wow- do I have a long list of answers on this one. But the biggest one I'd mention is about expectations. It is so important that you know what to expect from college- most people see it as a big party, a time of incomparable social activity. But the sad truth is that 99 percent of the people you meet in college, just like in the ';real world';, are not going to be people you necessarily want to associate with. Being surrounded with people sharing the same current experiences as you does not guarantee that you will make countless connections, and to expect this is simply unrealistic. But this isn't necessarily a bad thing- it just means that you need to be that much more comfortable with yourself and unafraid to be who you are, even when you're not recieving the affirmation of being part of ';a group.'; The key is to know this ahead of time, remember that when it comes to friendships, quality is always worth more than quantity, and make sure to keep your eye out for the one percent of people with whom you can actually form genuine friendships and relationships with.
I taught lots of freshman students for years and my one big piece of advice was this:
Don't try to do everything right away: Don't join every cool, college group you can. You've got 4 years to do SO many things. Take the time to get used to the whole new experience and then dive in the next semester/year. Like someone above said, if you do well your freshman year, you won't be making up for it for the next 3 years.
i was told this.. but time management is definitely a key thing to know.wet eyeshadow
Things you must do before graduating college:
1. Live on campus in the dorms
2. Study abroad for one semester
3. Join a student organization
4. Attend a popular sporting event on campus and cheer for your college team (if you have athletics on campus)
5. Visit the historical/significant places on campus that make your college unique
Advice:
1. Get good grades as a freshman! If you don't you will spend the next four years trying to overcome them.
2. Utilize your academic advisor!!
3. You are supposed to miss home, miss your family and question whether or not you made the right decision to attend your institution.
4. Don't worry. About 80% of college students change their major.
5. Before you give up and just stop attending class look into the withdrawl and incomplete options for courses. Again...if you get an ';F'; you will be kicking yourself for years.
6. All college students have personal issues. Visit your counseling services. You aren't crazy! They are there to help!!
7. Your campus Health Services has REAL doctors. Utilize them.What advice do you wish you'd gotten when you started college?
Wow- do I have a long list of answers on this one. But the biggest one I'd mention is about expectations. It is so important that you know what to expect from college- most people see it as a big party, a time of incomparable social activity. But the sad truth is that 99 percent of the people you meet in college, just like in the ';real world';, are not going to be people you necessarily want to associate with. Being surrounded with people sharing the same current experiences as you does not guarantee that you will make countless connections, and to expect this is simply unrealistic. But this isn't necessarily a bad thing- it just means that you need to be that much more comfortable with yourself and unafraid to be who you are, even when you're not recieving the affirmation of being part of ';a group.'; The key is to know this ahead of time, remember that when it comes to friendships, quality is always worth more than quantity, and make sure to keep your eye out for the one percent of people with whom you can actually form genuine friendships and relationships with.
I taught lots of freshman students for years and my one big piece of advice was this:
Don't try to do everything right away: Don't join every cool, college group you can. You've got 4 years to do SO many things. Take the time to get used to the whole new experience and then dive in the next semester/year. Like someone above said, if you do well your freshman year, you won't be making up for it for the next 3 years.
i was told this.. but time management is definitely a key thing to know.
Please Please help me out. I really need all the advice i can get?
Me and my guy have been together steady for 1 year and almost 3 months, and have been on and off for 2 years. Almost 2 years ago he cheated (only kissed the girl) and told me that day. I ended it, but we got back together obviously. I still have some trust issues with him. Lately he hasn't been telling me where he's going or who with. I'll admit I have the habit of always asking questions thinking he's with another girl. He's had his full and now just doesn't tell me that kinda stuff anymore. He doesn't even answer his cell when he's out, because he knows i'll ask where he is and who he's with. I know this all falls back on me and it's my fault it's like this now.
What are some ways to get him to open up again, and what are some ways to build my trust in him up again??Please Please help me out. I really need all the advice i can get?
Try to give him some space. If he's really been true and pure for the past few weeks/months, give him a little credit. Don't call as much because right now he's conditioned to when you call, he gets the third degree and is interrogated. When he comes back, don't ask what he's been doing, but ask how was his day and if anything fun/nice happened to him. That way it doesn't seem that he's in the spotlight and you're just curious about his day. Talk to him about your day too and try to share the focused attention so it shows that you're not just trying to get him to admit something he may or may not have done. Sooner or later, he'll loose his emotional and mental shield towards you and open up again.Please Please help me out. I really need all the advice i can get?
stop asking him questions or you have to let him go.
if he cheated on you once, he will do it again. your better off without him. go on with your life without him, you don't need extra stress in your life.
You have to give him a chance to earn the trust back and he should have done that by now. If this is still going on then maybe you have some insecurities with yourself. He doesn't want to answer the cell when he is out because he knows what your gonna say and doesn't want to hear it, and after 2 years I wouldn't want to either. If he is gonna cheat then he will no matter what you keep pusing the way you do and he will be gone. Let go a little and show him that your not his keeper and his girl. He will open up then
Yea i totally understand where you're comming from. If my boyfriend cheated on me and we got back togeather, i would be wanting to make sure he wouldnt do it again (by asking questions and/or becomming paranoid) lol But if you ask too many questions he may feel that he's wasting his time in the realtionship if the woman doesent even trust him. (and yes i know he must consider the fact that you have every right to have doubts on Trust and stuff, but its true) I would tell him that if he wants me to stop asking questions then he must show that he is trustworthy... thats all i can say lol
Much Love
-Ash.
why are you with him? it clearly isn't working.
he sounds like a bad lemom of a looser
WHAT AN IGNORANT GUY HE IS WOW!
What are some ways to get him to open up again, and what are some ways to build my trust in him up again??Please Please help me out. I really need all the advice i can get?
Try to give him some space. If he's really been true and pure for the past few weeks/months, give him a little credit. Don't call as much because right now he's conditioned to when you call, he gets the third degree and is interrogated. When he comes back, don't ask what he's been doing, but ask how was his day and if anything fun/nice happened to him. That way it doesn't seem that he's in the spotlight and you're just curious about his day. Talk to him about your day too and try to share the focused attention so it shows that you're not just trying to get him to admit something he may or may not have done. Sooner or later, he'll loose his emotional and mental shield towards you and open up again.Please Please help me out. I really need all the advice i can get?
stop asking him questions or you have to let him go.
if he cheated on you once, he will do it again. your better off without him. go on with your life without him, you don't need extra stress in your life.
You have to give him a chance to earn the trust back and he should have done that by now. If this is still going on then maybe you have some insecurities with yourself. He doesn't want to answer the cell when he is out because he knows what your gonna say and doesn't want to hear it, and after 2 years I wouldn't want to either. If he is gonna cheat then he will no matter what you keep pusing the way you do and he will be gone. Let go a little and show him that your not his keeper and his girl. He will open up then
Yea i totally understand where you're comming from. If my boyfriend cheated on me and we got back togeather, i would be wanting to make sure he wouldnt do it again (by asking questions and/or becomming paranoid) lol But if you ask too many questions he may feel that he's wasting his time in the realtionship if the woman doesent even trust him. (and yes i know he must consider the fact that you have every right to have doubts on Trust and stuff, but its true) I would tell him that if he wants me to stop asking questions then he must show that he is trustworthy... thats all i can say lol
Much Love
-Ash.
why are you with him? it clearly isn't working.
he sounds like a bad lemom of a looser
WHAT AN IGNORANT GUY HE IS WOW!
I cant choose!! i need any advice i can get!?
okay heres the thing, im dating a wonderful girl that im starting to drift apart from, and im not going to see her for almost a year, a very good friend of mine likes me (ive had feelings for her for 4 years) but i love my girlfriend with all my heart and i just cant figure out what to do! stay with a girl and have a bad relationship, or break her heart and go out with someone else whom i also like.I cant choose!! i need any advice i can get!?
love can overcome anythingI cant choose!! i need any advice i can get!?
Had The Same Thing Happen To Me.
I Made The Right Choice And Kept The Love.
If You Love Her You Two Can Try And Work Things Out.
If There Is Really No Love At All,
Don't Lead Her On.
Love Or Like.
Its Your Choice In The End.
love can overcome anythingI cant choose!! i need any advice i can get!?
Had The Same Thing Happen To Me.
I Made The Right Choice And Kept The Love.
If You Love Her You Two Can Try And Work Things Out.
If There Is Really No Love At All,
Don't Lead Her On.
Love Or Like.
Its Your Choice In The End.
Advice please? How do I get over this?
Hi people. Got a problem. I need advice please as I am going nuts over this.
I am very deeply in love with someone, but we can never be together. The reason being that he is married - to his childhood sweetheart, just to make it worse. They've been together since they started high school 16 years ago. They have 2 young kids and I'm certain that they have a happy home.
He and I are close friends, and we spend a lot of time together as we work together. Emotionally we have a very strong bond, to the point where each of us usually knows exactly what the other is thinking. If we're apart and something bad happens to one of us, the other knows. We both understand one another in a way that nobody else ever has. We both feel like we are soulmates in some weird way.
I know he feels the same way. It is getting more difficult to hide, and people have started to notice how close we've become. The chemistry between us is blatant, but neither of us will do anything about it.Advice please? How do I get over this?
Why should she ';be ashamed of herself';? She is not asking for advice on how to steal someone's husband, she wants to know how to get over the way she feels If anything, she should be praised for refusing point blank to break up a family! She has done absolutely nothing wrong and by the sounds of it, she isn't planning to do anything wrong. Some of YOU should be ashamed for lambasting someone who is obviously doing the right thing. It is ridiculous.
KAY: I am not going to lecture you, as it's not my place to do so, and I don't think there's any need. You clearly stated that you are not going to get further involved with this guy. Good on you for being a decent, moral person. I admire your honesty, and I respect your straightforward approach and your refusal to become a 'homewrecker'.
You can't help how you feel. You can, however, decide how to act (or how not to act, in this case) on those feelings - and I think you are DEFINITELY doing the right thing by not starting an affair. As you've said, it would most likely lead to a great deal of heartache all round, particularly as there are young kids involved.
I feel for you, having been in a very similar situation. Like you, I didn't do anything about it because it would have been wrong to do so.There's no easy or pain free solution, and this is going to be difficult, but if your friendship is developing into so much more, you need to back off NOW before it gets any deeper - you don't want to take the risk of anything happening that shouldn't. It is horribly difficult, but you need to stay away from him. That's what I did, as I couldn't live with myself if I had played any part in destroying a marriage and a family. Although I don't think these feelings will ever go away, I know that I've done the right thing.
Look at it this way: you don't need to start an affair. What you have is perfect, in an odd way. You're very close, you clearly care for one another (albeit too much), and you have a good friendship. As you will never be together, you'll never mess it up, you won't hurt one another, you won't hurt anyone else, you won't lose what you have. So bear that in mind, keep your distance, and concentrate on your own relationship at home and your career. Let him concentrate on being the family man that he is. Be strong. Leave him alone and, hard as it is, move forward.
You've done nothing wrong here and no reason to feel guilty, as long as you leave him alone. If more people showed such integrity and selflessness, the world would be a better place.Advice please? How do I get over this?
Any sane person who bothered to read your question tproperly would see that you are not a homewrecker. Ignore the stupid ones.
whatever you do, please think of others first...won't be fair to his family %26amp; ur partner...you gotta draw the line or just forget about the whole thing...
You have to CHOOSE to stop.
If all you say is true (won't break up relationship, love your partner) you have to choose to stop. The alternative is to go against your morals and feel guilty for a long time.
If all you say is not true, you really don't care, in which case, do what makes you feel good.
Find another guy to fall in love with, or you could turn this soulmate relationship into a best friends forever (yeah, so it sounds a little 6th grade, big deal) relationship.
@-%26gt;--%26gt;-
I think you both are grown ups...If both of you know this can go no where, stop playing the game...Before someone does get hurt...Like the children...some things in life just are not easy...but making the right choice is up to you...
Girl...when you find out...please tell me.
I am married myself. I recently found an old friend once again.
We both care so much about each other, but he doesn't want to break up my beautiful family. He also has a long-term girlfriend...but why do we talk for hours on end on the phone?
It sucks...and the fact that he lives 3,000 miles from me sucks, too. I think my husband suspects something is going on between us, even though we are so far away. We are far away physically, but our hearts have been close for years. Anyway, my husband is jealous, and he suspects I feel something for my ';friend';, but he will never ask. I think he won't ask because he doesn't want to know the answer.
Girl..I feel for you...and if you and this guy you like wants to be with you...there will come a point that you will no longer be able to keep a secret. At this point...his marriage will fail.
I only hope that you and him make each other happy. And I hope his wife finds a man who will be faithful to her. We all deserve it.
Good Luck!
if you love someone set them free.
A very close friend of mine has just gone through something very similar to you.... he left his wife, they were together for 2 weeks... so so happy they were, but his wife was gutted and wanted him back, so off he went, back to his wife and kids. It not worth ruining everything including this great bond you 2 have, over this, the best bet is to sit it out, if your meant to be together, then it will happen all on its own, naturally with as little pain to everyone else as possible. Stay friends, friends can be close, just dont let it go any further, you will only live to regret it ok........
You can't get over it as easily as you would think. Time heals all wounds and that's what you need. See what you can do about taking a vacation from work and going somewhere special with just you and your significant other. Get to know him better and let him get to know you. Maybe you can spark these type of feelings in the relationship you are in.
This is gonna be hard to hear but u need to cut all ties with him. I fu do split him and his partner up u will never forgive yourself and therefore never be happy, but by the sounds of it he is very happy with things how they are and doesn't see u in any way other than a really close friend. Lots of people are going to get hurt, youself included, if u continue along this path so please just walk away. A damn sight easier said than done but be strong. Hope you make the right choice, even if it doesn't feel like it at the time. Good luck x
I think you know the answer, deep down, but do not want to acknowledge it. The attraction of 'forbidden fruit' is a cliche but a very true one.
If you two break up your existing relationship to be with each other, the consequences for all the peop;e you leave will be rotten - as you know well from your own childhood. If you get together the odds are that the 'blatant chemistry' between you will be realised in a short set of physical reactions and then a new equilibrium will set in. And there is every chance that you will then each begin to blame the other for breaking up your original relationships.
If you really intended to go down this path, I do not think you would be seeking advice from anyone else.
Either talk to him and agree a way of working together less intimately-and stick to it-or look for another job, within or better still, outwith your current employer.
I hope you can keep your partner and your friend, but in a better, less stressful and less dangerous balance.
Be happy.
You go about finding yourself a man that IS available and give you the love and comfort and suport that you seem to crave from this other man.
Try and avoid this guy as much as possible- I know its hard when you work together - but by trying to avoid situations where the chemistry etc is blatant - then you're making it easier on yourself.
good luck!
xx
You ignore it.
This situation is never easy, but by being with one person you automatically agree to keep away from anyone else. I know it's hard because we can all love more than one person, but the beauty of a strong relationship is to choose one and pass on any others. Good luck.
well i think that you should just tell him.
its better to let out your feelings, atleast you guys know that you like each other and would not have to brake up a relationship so close.......
i hope i helped......
You should be ashamed of yourself. Look for another job, ignore the situation. People WILL start talking, then it will get to his family, and then yours.
You would never set out to break their relationship? Well it seems to me that this is exactly what you are trying to do!
It's a crush..Once you break up with your significant others you will realize it's nothing more. It's easy for you to not feel guilty because you have no kids and no husband but as soon as he leaves his wife and kids he has more to lose. If you were to act on your feelings he would resent you and try to go back to his wife. Just let things be and keep him in your fantasies.
I am very deeply in love with someone, but we can never be together. The reason being that he is married - to his childhood sweetheart, just to make it worse. They've been together since they started high school 16 years ago. They have 2 young kids and I'm certain that they have a happy home.
He and I are close friends, and we spend a lot of time together as we work together. Emotionally we have a very strong bond, to the point where each of us usually knows exactly what the other is thinking. If we're apart and something bad happens to one of us, the other knows. We both understand one another in a way that nobody else ever has. We both feel like we are soulmates in some weird way.
I know he feels the same way. It is getting more difficult to hide, and people have started to notice how close we've become. The chemistry between us is blatant, but neither of us will do anything about it.Advice please? How do I get over this?
Why should she ';be ashamed of herself';? She is not asking for advice on how to steal someone's husband, she wants to know how to get over the way she feels If anything, she should be praised for refusing point blank to break up a family! She has done absolutely nothing wrong and by the sounds of it, she isn't planning to do anything wrong. Some of YOU should be ashamed for lambasting someone who is obviously doing the right thing. It is ridiculous.
KAY: I am not going to lecture you, as it's not my place to do so, and I don't think there's any need. You clearly stated that you are not going to get further involved with this guy. Good on you for being a decent, moral person. I admire your honesty, and I respect your straightforward approach and your refusal to become a 'homewrecker'.
You can't help how you feel. You can, however, decide how to act (or how not to act, in this case) on those feelings - and I think you are DEFINITELY doing the right thing by not starting an affair. As you've said, it would most likely lead to a great deal of heartache all round, particularly as there are young kids involved.
I feel for you, having been in a very similar situation. Like you, I didn't do anything about it because it would have been wrong to do so.There's no easy or pain free solution, and this is going to be difficult, but if your friendship is developing into so much more, you need to back off NOW before it gets any deeper - you don't want to take the risk of anything happening that shouldn't. It is horribly difficult, but you need to stay away from him. That's what I did, as I couldn't live with myself if I had played any part in destroying a marriage and a family. Although I don't think these feelings will ever go away, I know that I've done the right thing.
Look at it this way: you don't need to start an affair. What you have is perfect, in an odd way. You're very close, you clearly care for one another (albeit too much), and you have a good friendship. As you will never be together, you'll never mess it up, you won't hurt one another, you won't hurt anyone else, you won't lose what you have. So bear that in mind, keep your distance, and concentrate on your own relationship at home and your career. Let him concentrate on being the family man that he is. Be strong. Leave him alone and, hard as it is, move forward.
You've done nothing wrong here and no reason to feel guilty, as long as you leave him alone. If more people showed such integrity and selflessness, the world would be a better place.Advice please? How do I get over this?
Any sane person who bothered to read your question tproperly would see that you are not a homewrecker. Ignore the stupid ones.
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whatever you do, please think of others first...won't be fair to his family %26amp; ur partner...you gotta draw the line or just forget about the whole thing...
You have to CHOOSE to stop.
If all you say is true (won't break up relationship, love your partner) you have to choose to stop. The alternative is to go against your morals and feel guilty for a long time.
If all you say is not true, you really don't care, in which case, do what makes you feel good.
Find another guy to fall in love with, or you could turn this soulmate relationship into a best friends forever (yeah, so it sounds a little 6th grade, big deal) relationship.
@-%26gt;--%26gt;-
I think you both are grown ups...If both of you know this can go no where, stop playing the game...Before someone does get hurt...Like the children...some things in life just are not easy...but making the right choice is up to you...
Girl...when you find out...please tell me.
I am married myself. I recently found an old friend once again.
We both care so much about each other, but he doesn't want to break up my beautiful family. He also has a long-term girlfriend...but why do we talk for hours on end on the phone?
It sucks...and the fact that he lives 3,000 miles from me sucks, too. I think my husband suspects something is going on between us, even though we are so far away. We are far away physically, but our hearts have been close for years. Anyway, my husband is jealous, and he suspects I feel something for my ';friend';, but he will never ask. I think he won't ask because he doesn't want to know the answer.
Girl..I feel for you...and if you and this guy you like wants to be with you...there will come a point that you will no longer be able to keep a secret. At this point...his marriage will fail.
I only hope that you and him make each other happy. And I hope his wife finds a man who will be faithful to her. We all deserve it.
Good Luck!
if you love someone set them free.
A very close friend of mine has just gone through something very similar to you.... he left his wife, they were together for 2 weeks... so so happy they were, but his wife was gutted and wanted him back, so off he went, back to his wife and kids. It not worth ruining everything including this great bond you 2 have, over this, the best bet is to sit it out, if your meant to be together, then it will happen all on its own, naturally with as little pain to everyone else as possible. Stay friends, friends can be close, just dont let it go any further, you will only live to regret it ok........
You can't get over it as easily as you would think. Time heals all wounds and that's what you need. See what you can do about taking a vacation from work and going somewhere special with just you and your significant other. Get to know him better and let him get to know you. Maybe you can spark these type of feelings in the relationship you are in.
This is gonna be hard to hear but u need to cut all ties with him. I fu do split him and his partner up u will never forgive yourself and therefore never be happy, but by the sounds of it he is very happy with things how they are and doesn't see u in any way other than a really close friend. Lots of people are going to get hurt, youself included, if u continue along this path so please just walk away. A damn sight easier said than done but be strong. Hope you make the right choice, even if it doesn't feel like it at the time. Good luck x
I think you know the answer, deep down, but do not want to acknowledge it. The attraction of 'forbidden fruit' is a cliche but a very true one.
If you two break up your existing relationship to be with each other, the consequences for all the peop;e you leave will be rotten - as you know well from your own childhood. If you get together the odds are that the 'blatant chemistry' between you will be realised in a short set of physical reactions and then a new equilibrium will set in. And there is every chance that you will then each begin to blame the other for breaking up your original relationships.
If you really intended to go down this path, I do not think you would be seeking advice from anyone else.
Either talk to him and agree a way of working together less intimately-and stick to it-or look for another job, within or better still, outwith your current employer.
I hope you can keep your partner and your friend, but in a better, less stressful and less dangerous balance.
Be happy.
You go about finding yourself a man that IS available and give you the love and comfort and suport that you seem to crave from this other man.
Try and avoid this guy as much as possible- I know its hard when you work together - but by trying to avoid situations where the chemistry etc is blatant - then you're making it easier on yourself.
good luck!
xx
You ignore it.
This situation is never easy, but by being with one person you automatically agree to keep away from anyone else. I know it's hard because we can all love more than one person, but the beauty of a strong relationship is to choose one and pass on any others. Good luck.
well i think that you should just tell him.
its better to let out your feelings, atleast you guys know that you like each other and would not have to brake up a relationship so close.......
i hope i helped......
You should be ashamed of yourself. Look for another job, ignore the situation. People WILL start talking, then it will get to his family, and then yours.
You would never set out to break their relationship? Well it seems to me that this is exactly what you are trying to do!
It's a crush..Once you break up with your significant others you will realize it's nothing more. It's easy for you to not feel guilty because you have no kids and no husband but as soon as he leaves his wife and kids he has more to lose. If you were to act on your feelings he would resent you and try to go back to his wife. Just let things be and keep him in your fantasies.
What advice can you give for someone getting bad reads on the green?
At the course i work at, I can't get a good read of the greens for the life of me. I find that one of the courses are easier than the other two (so it's not the course). For example, I was working on my putting at the practice area today, and it would look flat to me, but it'll break. I'll have to get to know the greens with a few balls first and see how they roll before I can sink one in.
I already wear glasses and my prescription's up to date so it's not my eyes. Any advice?What advice can you give for someone getting bad reads on the green?
Bad green reading is due primarily to lack of knowledge and not taking all factors into consideration. Each grass used for putting greens effects the ball differently. The slope of the green, the manner in which it drains, minor undulations all have an effect on the roll of a putt. As a person becomes more familiar with the greens where he plays, he is cognizant of the subtleties that are peculiar to each green , the severity of breaks, etc. . He , naturally becomes a better putter.What advice can you give for someone getting bad reads on the green?
Sometimes you are reading the greens just fine but are just not setting up correctly. Have you tried drawing a dark line on the ball with a Sharpie and using that to make sure your orientation is OK. Check out this blog: www.niblicksoftruth.blogspot.com for a series of articles called Putting for Dough. I found some useful perspective and practice drills on putting.
try contact lenses.
imaguine that you pored a bucket of water on your ball .... and how the water would flow to the hole.
practice rolling golf balls with you hands rather than putting them to focus on how the ball rolles and not your putting stroke.
the grain of the green (direcion which the grass grows) will effect the speed of the putt which is a factor in determing the line.
EVERY PUTT IS A STRAIGHT PUTT!! Pick your spot and trust it.
Study up on grain of greens and the different types of grass, ie burmuda, bent grass, etc.
Greens are usually simple, but speed and grain can vary alot!
there are sunglasses out there with different color shades and you see the different shades of grass and with a little practice you will figure out if the dark shades are slow and break left or vice versa
Study greens and get lessons from a pro.
I hope this helps...
Hey,
I suggest getting a new putter that is easy to line up because it will make it a lot easier
get a caddy or get some putting lessons
I already wear glasses and my prescription's up to date so it's not my eyes. Any advice?What advice can you give for someone getting bad reads on the green?
Bad green reading is due primarily to lack of knowledge and not taking all factors into consideration. Each grass used for putting greens effects the ball differently. The slope of the green, the manner in which it drains, minor undulations all have an effect on the roll of a putt. As a person becomes more familiar with the greens where he plays, he is cognizant of the subtleties that are peculiar to each green , the severity of breaks, etc. . He , naturally becomes a better putter.What advice can you give for someone getting bad reads on the green?
Sometimes you are reading the greens just fine but are just not setting up correctly. Have you tried drawing a dark line on the ball with a Sharpie and using that to make sure your orientation is OK. Check out this blog: www.niblicksoftruth.blogspot.com for a series of articles called Putting for Dough. I found some useful perspective and practice drills on putting.
try contact lenses.
imaguine that you pored a bucket of water on your ball .... and how the water would flow to the hole.
practice rolling golf balls with you hands rather than putting them to focus on how the ball rolles and not your putting stroke.
the grain of the green (direcion which the grass grows) will effect the speed of the putt which is a factor in determing the line.
EVERY PUTT IS A STRAIGHT PUTT!! Pick your spot and trust it.
Study up on grain of greens and the different types of grass, ie burmuda, bent grass, etc.
Greens are usually simple, but speed and grain can vary alot!
there are sunglasses out there with different color shades and you see the different shades of grass and with a little practice you will figure out if the dark shades are slow and break left or vice versa
Study greens and get lessons from a pro.
I hope this helps...
Hey,
I suggest getting a new putter that is easy to line up because it will make it a lot easier
get a caddy or get some putting lessons
Advice please? How do I get over this?
Hi people. Got a problem. I need advice please as I am going nuts over this.
I am very deeply in love with someone, but we can never be together. The reason being that he is married - to his childhood sweetheart, just to make it worse. They've been together since they started high school 16 years ago. They have 2 young kids and I'm certain that they have a happy home.
He and I are close friends, and we spend a lot of time together as we work together. Emotionally we have a very strong bond, to the point where each of us usually knows exactly what the other is thinking. If we're apart and something bad happens to one of us, the other knows. We both understand one another in a way that nobody else ever has. We both feel like we are soulmates in some weird way.
I know he feels the same way. It is getting more difficult to hide, and people have started to notice how close we've become. The chemistry between us is blatant, but neither of us will do anything about it.Advice please? How do I get over this?
Why should she ';be ashamed of herself';? She is not asking for advice on how to steal someone's husband, she wants to know how to get over the way she feels If anything, she should be praised for refusing point blank to break up a family! She has done absolutely nothing wrong and by the sounds of it, she isn't planning to do anything wrong. Some of YOU should be ashamed for lambasting someone who is obviously doing the right thing. It is ridiculous.
KAY: I am not going to lecture you, as it's not my place to do so, and I don't think there's any need. You clearly stated that you are not going to get further involved with this guy. Good on you for being a decent, moral person. I admire your honesty, and I respect your straightforward approach and your refusal to become a 'homewrecker'.
You can't help how you feel. You can, however, decide how to act (or how not to act, in this case) on those feelings - and I think you are DEFINITELY doing the right thing by not starting an affair. As you've said, it would most likely lead to a great deal of heartache all round, particularly as there are young kids involved.
I feel for you, having been in a very similar situation. Like you, I didn't do anything about it because it would have been wrong to do so.There's no easy or pain free solution, and this is going to be difficult, but if your friendship is developing into so much more, you need to back off NOW before it gets any deeper - you don't want to take the risk of anything happening that shouldn't. It is horribly difficult, but you need to stay away from him. That's what I did, as I couldn't live with myself if I had played any part in destroying a marriage and a family. Although I don't think these feelings will ever go away, I know that I've done the right thing.
Look at it this way: you don't need to start an affair. What you have is perfect, in an odd way. You're very close, you clearly care for one another (albeit too much), and you have a good friendship. As you will never be together, you'll never mess it up, you won't hurt one another, you won't hurt anyone else, you won't lose what you have. So bear that in mind, keep your distance, and concentrate on your own relationship at home and your career. Let him concentrate on being the family man that he is. Be strong. Leave him alone and, hard as it is, move forward.
You've done nothing wrong here and no reason to feel guilty, as long as you leave him alone. If more people showed such integrity and selflessness, the world would be a better place.Advice please? How do I get over this?
Any sane person who bothered to read your question tproperly would see that you are not a homewrecker. Ignore the stupid ones.
whatever you do, please think of others first...won't be fair to his family %26amp; ur partner...you gotta draw the line or just forget about the whole thing...
You have to CHOOSE to stop.
If all you say is true (won't break up relationship, love your partner) you have to choose to stop. The alternative is to go against your morals and feel guilty for a long time.
If all you say is not true, you really don't care, in which case, do what makes you feel good.
Find another guy to fall in love with, or you could turn this soulmate relationship into a best friends forever (yeah, so it sounds a little 6th grade, big deal) relationship.
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I think you both are grown ups...If both of you know this can go no where, stop playing the game...Before someone does get hurt...Like the children...some things in life just are not easy...but making the right choice is up to you...
Girl...when you find out...please tell me.
I am married myself. I recently found an old friend once again.
We both care so much about each other, but he doesn't want to break up my beautiful family. He also has a long-term girlfriend...but why do we talk for hours on end on the phone?
It sucks...and the fact that he lives 3,000 miles from me sucks, too. I think my husband suspects something is going on between us, even though we are so far away. We are far away physically, but our hearts have been close for years. Anyway, my husband is jealous, and he suspects I feel something for my ';friend';, but he will never ask. I think he won't ask because he doesn't want to know the answer.
Girl..I feel for you...and if you and this guy you like wants to be with you...there will come a point that you will no longer be able to keep a secret. At this point...his marriage will fail.
I only hope that you and him make each other happy. And I hope his wife finds a man who will be faithful to her. We all deserve it.
Good Luck!
if you love someone set them free.
A very close friend of mine has just gone through something very similar to you.... he left his wife, they were together for 2 weeks... so so happy they were, but his wife was gutted and wanted him back, so off he went, back to his wife and kids. It not worth ruining everything including this great bond you 2 have, over this, the best bet is to sit it out, if your meant to be together, then it will happen all on its own, naturally with as little pain to everyone else as possible. Stay friends, friends can be close, just dont let it go any further, you will only live to regret it ok........
You can't get over it as easily as you would think. Time heals all wounds and that's what you need. See what you can do about taking a vacation from work and going somewhere special with just you and your significant other. Get to know him better and let him get to know you. Maybe you can spark these type of feelings in the relationship you are in.
This is gonna be hard to hear but u need to cut all ties with him. I fu do split him and his partner up u will never forgive yourself and therefore never be happy, but by the sounds of it he is very happy with things how they are and doesn't see u in any way other than a really close friend. Lots of people are going to get hurt, youself included, if u continue along this path so please just walk away. A damn sight easier said than done but be strong. Hope you make the right choice, even if it doesn't feel like it at the time. Good luck x
I think you know the answer, deep down, but do not want to acknowledge it. The attraction of 'forbidden fruit' is a cliche but a very true one.
If you two break up your existing relationship to be with each other, the consequences for all the peop;e you leave will be rotten - as you know well from your own childhood. If you get together the odds are that the 'blatant chemistry' between you will be realised in a short set of physical reactions and then a new equilibrium will set in. And there is every chance that you will then each begin to blame the other for breaking up your original relationships.
If you really intended to go down this path, I do not think you would be seeking advice from anyone else.
Either talk to him and agree a way of working together less intimately-and stick to it-or look for another job, within or better still, outwith your current employer.
I hope you can keep your partner and your friend, but in a better, less stressful and less dangerous balance.
Be happy.
You go about finding yourself a man that IS available and give you the love and comfort and suport that you seem to crave from this other man.
Try and avoid this guy as much as possible- I know its hard when you work together - but by trying to avoid situations where the chemistry etc is blatant - then you're making it easier on yourself.
good luck!
xx
You ignore it.
This situation is never easy, but by being with one person you automatically agree to keep away from anyone else. I know it's hard because we can all love more than one person, but the beauty of a strong relationship is to choose one and pass on any others. Good luck.
well i think that you should just tell him.
its better to let out your feelings, atleast you guys know that you like each other and would not have to brake up a relationship so close.......
i hope i helped......
You should be ashamed of yourself. Look for another job, ignore the situation. People WILL start talking, then it will get to his family, and then yours.
You would never set out to break their relationship? Well it seems to me that this is exactly what you are trying to do!
It's a crush..Once you break up with your significant others you will realize it's nothing more. It's easy for you to not feel guilty because you have no kids and no husband but as soon as he leaves his wife and kids he has more to lose. If you were to act on your feelings he would resent you and try to go back to his wife. Just let things be and keep him in your fantasies.
I am very deeply in love with someone, but we can never be together. The reason being that he is married - to his childhood sweetheart, just to make it worse. They've been together since they started high school 16 years ago. They have 2 young kids and I'm certain that they have a happy home.
He and I are close friends, and we spend a lot of time together as we work together. Emotionally we have a very strong bond, to the point where each of us usually knows exactly what the other is thinking. If we're apart and something bad happens to one of us, the other knows. We both understand one another in a way that nobody else ever has. We both feel like we are soulmates in some weird way.
I know he feels the same way. It is getting more difficult to hide, and people have started to notice how close we've become. The chemistry between us is blatant, but neither of us will do anything about it.Advice please? How do I get over this?
Why should she ';be ashamed of herself';? She is not asking for advice on how to steal someone's husband, she wants to know how to get over the way she feels If anything, she should be praised for refusing point blank to break up a family! She has done absolutely nothing wrong and by the sounds of it, she isn't planning to do anything wrong. Some of YOU should be ashamed for lambasting someone who is obviously doing the right thing. It is ridiculous.
KAY: I am not going to lecture you, as it's not my place to do so, and I don't think there's any need. You clearly stated that you are not going to get further involved with this guy. Good on you for being a decent, moral person. I admire your honesty, and I respect your straightforward approach and your refusal to become a 'homewrecker'.
You can't help how you feel. You can, however, decide how to act (or how not to act, in this case) on those feelings - and I think you are DEFINITELY doing the right thing by not starting an affair. As you've said, it would most likely lead to a great deal of heartache all round, particularly as there are young kids involved.
I feel for you, having been in a very similar situation. Like you, I didn't do anything about it because it would have been wrong to do so.There's no easy or pain free solution, and this is going to be difficult, but if your friendship is developing into so much more, you need to back off NOW before it gets any deeper - you don't want to take the risk of anything happening that shouldn't. It is horribly difficult, but you need to stay away from him. That's what I did, as I couldn't live with myself if I had played any part in destroying a marriage and a family. Although I don't think these feelings will ever go away, I know that I've done the right thing.
Look at it this way: you don't need to start an affair. What you have is perfect, in an odd way. You're very close, you clearly care for one another (albeit too much), and you have a good friendship. As you will never be together, you'll never mess it up, you won't hurt one another, you won't hurt anyone else, you won't lose what you have. So bear that in mind, keep your distance, and concentrate on your own relationship at home and your career. Let him concentrate on being the family man that he is. Be strong. Leave him alone and, hard as it is, move forward.
You've done nothing wrong here and no reason to feel guilty, as long as you leave him alone. If more people showed such integrity and selflessness, the world would be a better place.Advice please? How do I get over this?
Any sane person who bothered to read your question tproperly would see that you are not a homewrecker. Ignore the stupid ones.
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whatever you do, please think of others first...won't be fair to his family %26amp; ur partner...you gotta draw the line or just forget about the whole thing...
You have to CHOOSE to stop.
If all you say is true (won't break up relationship, love your partner) you have to choose to stop. The alternative is to go against your morals and feel guilty for a long time.
If all you say is not true, you really don't care, in which case, do what makes you feel good.
Find another guy to fall in love with, or you could turn this soulmate relationship into a best friends forever (yeah, so it sounds a little 6th grade, big deal) relationship.
@-%26gt;--%26gt;-
I think you both are grown ups...If both of you know this can go no where, stop playing the game...Before someone does get hurt...Like the children...some things in life just are not easy...but making the right choice is up to you...
Girl...when you find out...please tell me.
I am married myself. I recently found an old friend once again.
We both care so much about each other, but he doesn't want to break up my beautiful family. He also has a long-term girlfriend...but why do we talk for hours on end on the phone?
It sucks...and the fact that he lives 3,000 miles from me sucks, too. I think my husband suspects something is going on between us, even though we are so far away. We are far away physically, but our hearts have been close for years. Anyway, my husband is jealous, and he suspects I feel something for my ';friend';, but he will never ask. I think he won't ask because he doesn't want to know the answer.
Girl..I feel for you...and if you and this guy you like wants to be with you...there will come a point that you will no longer be able to keep a secret. At this point...his marriage will fail.
I only hope that you and him make each other happy. And I hope his wife finds a man who will be faithful to her. We all deserve it.
Good Luck!
if you love someone set them free.
A very close friend of mine has just gone through something very similar to you.... he left his wife, they were together for 2 weeks... so so happy they were, but his wife was gutted and wanted him back, so off he went, back to his wife and kids. It not worth ruining everything including this great bond you 2 have, over this, the best bet is to sit it out, if your meant to be together, then it will happen all on its own, naturally with as little pain to everyone else as possible. Stay friends, friends can be close, just dont let it go any further, you will only live to regret it ok........
You can't get over it as easily as you would think. Time heals all wounds and that's what you need. See what you can do about taking a vacation from work and going somewhere special with just you and your significant other. Get to know him better and let him get to know you. Maybe you can spark these type of feelings in the relationship you are in.
This is gonna be hard to hear but u need to cut all ties with him. I fu do split him and his partner up u will never forgive yourself and therefore never be happy, but by the sounds of it he is very happy with things how they are and doesn't see u in any way other than a really close friend. Lots of people are going to get hurt, youself included, if u continue along this path so please just walk away. A damn sight easier said than done but be strong. Hope you make the right choice, even if it doesn't feel like it at the time. Good luck x
I think you know the answer, deep down, but do not want to acknowledge it. The attraction of 'forbidden fruit' is a cliche but a very true one.
If you two break up your existing relationship to be with each other, the consequences for all the peop;e you leave will be rotten - as you know well from your own childhood. If you get together the odds are that the 'blatant chemistry' between you will be realised in a short set of physical reactions and then a new equilibrium will set in. And there is every chance that you will then each begin to blame the other for breaking up your original relationships.
If you really intended to go down this path, I do not think you would be seeking advice from anyone else.
Either talk to him and agree a way of working together less intimately-and stick to it-or look for another job, within or better still, outwith your current employer.
I hope you can keep your partner and your friend, but in a better, less stressful and less dangerous balance.
Be happy.
You go about finding yourself a man that IS available and give you the love and comfort and suport that you seem to crave from this other man.
Try and avoid this guy as much as possible- I know its hard when you work together - but by trying to avoid situations where the chemistry etc is blatant - then you're making it easier on yourself.
good luck!
xx
You ignore it.
This situation is never easy, but by being with one person you automatically agree to keep away from anyone else. I know it's hard because we can all love more than one person, but the beauty of a strong relationship is to choose one and pass on any others. Good luck.
well i think that you should just tell him.
its better to let out your feelings, atleast you guys know that you like each other and would not have to brake up a relationship so close.......
i hope i helped......
You should be ashamed of yourself. Look for another job, ignore the situation. People WILL start talking, then it will get to his family, and then yours.
You would never set out to break their relationship? Well it seems to me that this is exactly what you are trying to do!
It's a crush..Once you break up with your significant others you will realize it's nothing more. It's easy for you to not feel guilty because you have no kids and no husband but as soon as he leaves his wife and kids he has more to lose. If you were to act on your feelings he would resent you and try to go back to his wife. Just let things be and keep him in your fantasies.
What advice can you give for someone getting bad reads on the green?
At the course i work at, I can't get a good read of the greens for the life of me. I find that one of the courses are easier than the other two (so it's not the course). For example, I was working on my putting at the practice area today, and it would look flat to me, but it'll break. I'll have to get to know the greens with a few balls first and see how they roll before I can sink one in.
I already wear glasses and my prescription's up to date so it's not my eyes. Any advice?What advice can you give for someone getting bad reads on the green?
Bad green reading is due primarily to lack of knowledge and not taking all factors into consideration. Each grass used for putting greens effects the ball differently. The slope of the green, the manner in which it drains, minor undulations all have an effect on the roll of a putt. As a person becomes more familiar with the greens where he plays, he is cognizant of the subtleties that are peculiar to each green , the severity of breaks, etc. . He , naturally becomes a better putter.What advice can you give for someone getting bad reads on the green?
Sometimes you are reading the greens just fine but are just not setting up correctly. Have you tried drawing a dark line on the ball with a Sharpie and using that to make sure your orientation is OK. Check out this blog: www.niblicksoftruth.blogspot.com for a series of articles called Putting for Dough. I found some useful perspective and practice drills on putting.
try contact lenses.
imaguine that you pored a bucket of water on your ball .... and how the water would flow to the hole.
practice rolling golf balls with you hands rather than putting them to focus on how the ball rolles and not your putting stroke.
the grain of the green (direcion which the grass grows) will effect the speed of the putt which is a factor in determing the line.
EVERY PUTT IS A STRAIGHT PUTT!! Pick your spot and trust it.
Study up on grain of greens and the different types of grass, ie burmuda, bent grass, etc.
Greens are usually simple, but speed and grain can vary alot!
there are sunglasses out there with different color shades and you see the different shades of grass and with a little practice you will figure out if the dark shades are slow and break left or vice versa
Study greens and get lessons from a pro.
I hope this helps...
Hey,
I suggest getting a new putter that is easy to line up because it will make it a lot easier
get a caddy or get some putting lessonswet eyeshadow
I already wear glasses and my prescription's up to date so it's not my eyes. Any advice?What advice can you give for someone getting bad reads on the green?
Bad green reading is due primarily to lack of knowledge and not taking all factors into consideration. Each grass used for putting greens effects the ball differently. The slope of the green, the manner in which it drains, minor undulations all have an effect on the roll of a putt. As a person becomes more familiar with the greens where he plays, he is cognizant of the subtleties that are peculiar to each green , the severity of breaks, etc. . He , naturally becomes a better putter.What advice can you give for someone getting bad reads on the green?
Sometimes you are reading the greens just fine but are just not setting up correctly. Have you tried drawing a dark line on the ball with a Sharpie and using that to make sure your orientation is OK. Check out this blog: www.niblicksoftruth.blogspot.com for a series of articles called Putting for Dough. I found some useful perspective and practice drills on putting.
try contact lenses.
imaguine that you pored a bucket of water on your ball .... and how the water would flow to the hole.
practice rolling golf balls with you hands rather than putting them to focus on how the ball rolles and not your putting stroke.
the grain of the green (direcion which the grass grows) will effect the speed of the putt which is a factor in determing the line.
EVERY PUTT IS A STRAIGHT PUTT!! Pick your spot and trust it.
Study up on grain of greens and the different types of grass, ie burmuda, bent grass, etc.
Greens are usually simple, but speed and grain can vary alot!
there are sunglasses out there with different color shades and you see the different shades of grass and with a little practice you will figure out if the dark shades are slow and break left or vice versa
Study greens and get lessons from a pro.
I hope this helps...
Hey,
I suggest getting a new putter that is easy to line up because it will make it a lot easier
get a caddy or get some putting lessons
My 3 week baby won't sleep on the crib only on the bed with me any advice on how to get him in the crib?
ANY ADVICE ON HOW TO GET HIM TO SLEEP ON THE CRIBMy 3 week baby won't sleep on the crib only on the bed with me any advice on how to get him in the crib?
If you both sleep better then try to co-sleep.
The crib is a modern invention, and a lot of cultures do not have cribs or cradles.
Babies are supposed to sleep with their mother.
Breasts can rise a few degrees in a matter of minutes if babe is cold.
Mothers are supposed to regulate their babies temperature and breathing.
The SIDS risk is lower with co sleeping because of you regulating their breathing.[people say that it is more, but there is a difference between SIDS and suffocation, which your baby is only at risk for if you use drugs or drink. I mean do you roll off the bed all the time? You are aware of your surroundings]
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Enjoy your new baby.My 3 week baby won't sleep on the crib only on the bed with me any advice on how to get him in the crib?
Try keeping the crib near your bed and maybe even putting something that smells like you in it. They also have Teddy Bears I have seen at Walmart before that mimic your heartbeat which is soothing to a newborn. Think about it, that sounds soothed them for 9 months while in the womb, the shock of being outside the womb they are bound to have separation anxiety.
The best thing is to keep your baby in the crib, even if you have to let them cry it out at first because if you don't you risk SIDS, rolling on them or just never getting them out of your bed.
do you have a bassinet for him rather then the crib? the crib might feel a lil big. But I would let him whine for a few minutes, and then go in and not necessarily pick him up but just rub his back, talk softly to him, let him know he will be fine. I had the bassinet in my room until he was about 3 months old....then i switched him to his crib in his room and I would roll up a receiveing blanket and tuck it on his side, but not oo much so he doesnt roll onto his face. I put the bassinet in my room only so I didn't have to get up all the time, cuz lets face it, when we are trying to get as much sleep as possible getting up and walking across the house half asleep doesnt always work. It will take time but he will learn to trust that you are there no matter what. Does he sleep during the day in his crib?
It's going to be a slow transition. At first, I only made my son sleep the first part of the night in his crib and then brought him in with me. Or if I couldn't get him to sleep there first, I would let him start with me and move him to his crib later.
Like I said, this will be a slow process, some nights he may only sleep in his crib for an hour or not at all. Some nights night be 2 or 3 hours. Don;t get discouraged. Just keep trying to ut him in his crib. Listen to his cues. He is just telling you that he doesn't feel secure enough for that step yet and he needs his mommy and that's ok. You can't spoil a baby this young. Hang in there, you'll get it!
you might have a small problem for a night or 2 but that should be it. he isn't even old enough to realize what you are doing. you dont sleep with him on the bed next to him, for every nap right?? if you have to, let him FALL asleep next to you and move him. i am very against co-sleeping at night. i love to co-sleep at nap time, when it is only for a short time. it is too dangerous. i lost my 2 month old nephew last year, due to co-sleeping. (my sis in law's night gown suffocated him) anything could happen. i used to sleep with my babies up until they were 1 year old, not anymore. actually, it would be better when he is a couple of months older, when he can roll over and turn his head on his own, he will have more muscle strenth. i know you want to bond, but you can still bond without causing risk to the baby. try rocking him first or walking him to sleep, then outting him in the crib. everytime he wakes up , do it again and put him in the crib. don't give in. good luck, and i have been there before.
i had this problem with my daughter i am sooooooooo scared of having her sleep with her dad and I so once i realized she wouldnt sleep in her bassinett i went out and bought this thing its like a baby supporter it has this two pillow looking thing or cushions and the baby lays between it and i also swaddle once i found that thing she slept longer and longer in her basinett. she now sleeps in her crib but i dont use that thing anymore i do still swaddle she is 1 week shy of 6 months i think i should stoop swaddling my bf keeps hassling me about it. my daughter sleeps 9-10 hrs straight at night ::::sigh::::::
Sounds like my oldest child who not only would not sleep in his bassinet but had to have the lights on!
I don't know if this will work for you, but my son would sleep in the carrier. So...we started him on the carrier on our bed, then graduated him to carrier in the crib. Eventually we'd transfer him to the mattress. Never did get him to sleep in the bassinet, but he did sleep in his crib after a few weeks.
And I agree with a post above... the baby's only 3 weeks old do Not just let him cry it out. I was told that too and I ended up crying along with him, out of guilt. Just ween him/her into the crib. Don't rush, and enjoy your baby.
Good Luck!
start by setting the scene.
hang some dark curtains over the windows.
play some soothing music on a cd player.
put a comfortable chair beside the crib.
make yourself a nice relaxing drink, and put it beside the chair.
turn off any lights near baby's room - though you will need enough to see what you are doing. no direct light though. maybe a night light or a lamp, or a light on in another room will do.
make sure the whole house is quiet except for the music playing.
feel confident and calm. baby will pick up on your emotions.
swaddle baby in some light material.
lay baby in the crib.
sit beside the crib with your arm through the bars.
rest your hand on baby's body and give very slight rocking and patting with your hand.
talk in quiet whispers ';time to go to sleep now darling'; and ';shhh';
sit and pat and rock baby like this while drinking your nice drink, and listening to the music.
try to look away from baby while he/she is crying, as that can make it easier for you to handle.
eventually your darling will fall asleep.
leave the music on repeat and leave the room.
once you have this routine going, sleep will come quicker and quicker each time as baby learns that laying in that crib, in that room with the dark and the music means ';sleep';.
really, you should wait. at his age, he doesn't just WANT to sleep with you, he needs to. 3 week old babies don't have ';wants.'; plus, co-sleeping usually results in everyone getting more sleep. remember, he was tucked into your belly for 9 months. it's scary and lonely out here. and, trust me, there will come a time -- sooner than you think -- when you will wish he was still in bed with you. hang in there, mom. enjoy the cuddling while you can!
luckily my 7 week old started sleeping in his own crib around 5 weeks. he still wakes up around 4am and won't fall back asleep until he's in bed with me. i'm worried i'm starting a bad habit, but then i remind myself that he's only weeks old!! try hanging in there. he just likes you there for comfort. i don't mind it because i love sleeping next to him, my only worry is habit. if you're worried about hurting him or rolling over...sometimes i use a boppy to prop him up and he loves sleeping in that right next to me in bed. of course i dont do that all through the night though...only the last few hours towards morning. good luck!
Make a recording of your heartbeat or buy one of those bears that has a women's heartbeat beating and place beside your baby. Mostly it is that 'comfort' that your child is wanting, but added comfort may include warmth, so make sure he is.
I bought one of those bears for my boys and my first loved it and my second didn't, so it's not failsafe but from what I've heard it's better than most.
i COULDNT put my son in his crib until 7 wks old - he would get so scared then one day i put him in there and he's been on there ever since before that he would sleep in a ';secure sleeper'; in our bed, then we moved it into a pack n play next to our bed at at times he slept in his bouncer or car seat - whatever works so you can get some sleep too!!
Well i dont know if this will work but when i had my son i was told you can take a heatin pad and under tha blankets for a while and take it out then take a water bottle and put hot water in it and put that on tha side of tha baby under tha blankets and it will give him some kind of feelin u r there....
but i neaver did try it 8(
this is a tough one, have you tried feeding him then putting him down drowsy but not asleep...or you could try complete opposite and get him to sleep then put him down, either way try not to pick him back up until he is actually crying...if he is just fussing he may quit and fall asleep, my son does that, he fusses and grunts for 30 min then eventually falls asleep. good luck
I co-sleep with my 13 week old daughter and I think its great. I can nurse her instantly and we both get at least 8 hours of sleep that way. You dont HAVE to put her in the crib but if you are wanting too I would start by swaddling and using some sort of white noise
His crib probably feels to big for him right now especially at 3 weeks. Babies that age like to feel secure try swaddling him before you put him down. This may help some with the space issue, or try putting him in a bassinet.
Nope.
But I have advice to make you happy about having him in your bed. -- http://www.awareparenting.com/sleep.htm
Try different alterations in the crib maybe he'll find a position in the crib that suites him
Our son slept in a bassinet swaddled next to our bed until he could sit up then we co slept until he was 9 months...he's been in his own crib for about 3 weeks thanks to the Ferber Method....best of luck
Get a bedside bassinet and place him in it after he falls asleep.
or
Wait 9 months or so when he starts sleeping through the night then transfer him into the crib - that's what we did!
he just likes the closeness of being next to you. wait till he's older or put a pillow beside him but make sure he wont suffocate.
you should let the baby sleep in your bed with you in it and when the baby is asleep you put him in his crib
Let him cry it out.
I wouldn't let him scream for hours! But try it at 5-10 minute intervals. Let him cry for 10 mins, then hold him, let him cry again, then go to him again. Just keep at it.
You gotta get him used to his crib asap, it'll only get harder and worse in time if he keeps sleeping in your bed.
good luck. and be patient, it won't happen over night, but it will happen in no time if you stick to it and keep putting him in the crib.
STOP TYPING IN ALL CAPS!
Yes, you take the kid and stick it in the crib. Then you go to bed and fall asleep.
At 3 weeks of age, this sleeping problem is not a problem with the kid or its behavior, it's a problem with you.
you need to go get some bloodwork done to make sure that you dont have post-partum depression. there's no shame in that, it's what naturally happens to your body as it adapts to not being pregnant anymore.
try not to give in. He is going to be upset when you put him in his own bed but that's only normal. If you keep getting him to sleep in your bed he will never get used to sleeping alone. Let him cry, even though its hard to do. If you put your foot down he will get used to his own bed.
If you both sleep better then try to co-sleep.
The crib is a modern invention, and a lot of cultures do not have cribs or cradles.
Babies are supposed to sleep with their mother.
Breasts can rise a few degrees in a matter of minutes if babe is cold.
Mothers are supposed to regulate their babies temperature and breathing.
The SIDS risk is lower with co sleeping because of you regulating their breathing.[people say that it is more, but there is a difference between SIDS and suffocation, which your baby is only at risk for if you use drugs or drink. I mean do you roll off the bed all the time? You are aware of your surroundings]
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Enjoy your new baby.My 3 week baby won't sleep on the crib only on the bed with me any advice on how to get him in the crib?
Try keeping the crib near your bed and maybe even putting something that smells like you in it. They also have Teddy Bears I have seen at Walmart before that mimic your heartbeat which is soothing to a newborn. Think about it, that sounds soothed them for 9 months while in the womb, the shock of being outside the womb they are bound to have separation anxiety.
The best thing is to keep your baby in the crib, even if you have to let them cry it out at first because if you don't you risk SIDS, rolling on them or just never getting them out of your bed.
do you have a bassinet for him rather then the crib? the crib might feel a lil big. But I would let him whine for a few minutes, and then go in and not necessarily pick him up but just rub his back, talk softly to him, let him know he will be fine. I had the bassinet in my room until he was about 3 months old....then i switched him to his crib in his room and I would roll up a receiveing blanket and tuck it on his side, but not oo much so he doesnt roll onto his face. I put the bassinet in my room only so I didn't have to get up all the time, cuz lets face it, when we are trying to get as much sleep as possible getting up and walking across the house half asleep doesnt always work. It will take time but he will learn to trust that you are there no matter what. Does he sleep during the day in his crib?
It's going to be a slow transition. At first, I only made my son sleep the first part of the night in his crib and then brought him in with me. Or if I couldn't get him to sleep there first, I would let him start with me and move him to his crib later.
Like I said, this will be a slow process, some nights he may only sleep in his crib for an hour or not at all. Some nights night be 2 or 3 hours. Don;t get discouraged. Just keep trying to ut him in his crib. Listen to his cues. He is just telling you that he doesn't feel secure enough for that step yet and he needs his mommy and that's ok. You can't spoil a baby this young. Hang in there, you'll get it!
you might have a small problem for a night or 2 but that should be it. he isn't even old enough to realize what you are doing. you dont sleep with him on the bed next to him, for every nap right?? if you have to, let him FALL asleep next to you and move him. i am very against co-sleeping at night. i love to co-sleep at nap time, when it is only for a short time. it is too dangerous. i lost my 2 month old nephew last year, due to co-sleeping. (my sis in law's night gown suffocated him) anything could happen. i used to sleep with my babies up until they were 1 year old, not anymore. actually, it would be better when he is a couple of months older, when he can roll over and turn his head on his own, he will have more muscle strenth. i know you want to bond, but you can still bond without causing risk to the baby. try rocking him first or walking him to sleep, then outting him in the crib. everytime he wakes up , do it again and put him in the crib. don't give in. good luck, and i have been there before.
i had this problem with my daughter i am sooooooooo scared of having her sleep with her dad and I so once i realized she wouldnt sleep in her bassinett i went out and bought this thing its like a baby supporter it has this two pillow looking thing or cushions and the baby lays between it and i also swaddle once i found that thing she slept longer and longer in her basinett. she now sleeps in her crib but i dont use that thing anymore i do still swaddle she is 1 week shy of 6 months i think i should stoop swaddling my bf keeps hassling me about it. my daughter sleeps 9-10 hrs straight at night ::::sigh::::::
Sounds like my oldest child who not only would not sleep in his bassinet but had to have the lights on!
I don't know if this will work for you, but my son would sleep in the carrier. So...we started him on the carrier on our bed, then graduated him to carrier in the crib. Eventually we'd transfer him to the mattress. Never did get him to sleep in the bassinet, but he did sleep in his crib after a few weeks.
And I agree with a post above... the baby's only 3 weeks old do Not just let him cry it out. I was told that too and I ended up crying along with him, out of guilt. Just ween him/her into the crib. Don't rush, and enjoy your baby.
Good Luck!
start by setting the scene.
hang some dark curtains over the windows.
play some soothing music on a cd player.
put a comfortable chair beside the crib.
make yourself a nice relaxing drink, and put it beside the chair.
turn off any lights near baby's room - though you will need enough to see what you are doing. no direct light though. maybe a night light or a lamp, or a light on in another room will do.
make sure the whole house is quiet except for the music playing.
feel confident and calm. baby will pick up on your emotions.
swaddle baby in some light material.
lay baby in the crib.
sit beside the crib with your arm through the bars.
rest your hand on baby's body and give very slight rocking and patting with your hand.
talk in quiet whispers ';time to go to sleep now darling'; and ';shhh';
sit and pat and rock baby like this while drinking your nice drink, and listening to the music.
try to look away from baby while he/she is crying, as that can make it easier for you to handle.
eventually your darling will fall asleep.
leave the music on repeat and leave the room.
once you have this routine going, sleep will come quicker and quicker each time as baby learns that laying in that crib, in that room with the dark and the music means ';sleep';.
really, you should wait. at his age, he doesn't just WANT to sleep with you, he needs to. 3 week old babies don't have ';wants.'; plus, co-sleeping usually results in everyone getting more sleep. remember, he was tucked into your belly for 9 months. it's scary and lonely out here. and, trust me, there will come a time -- sooner than you think -- when you will wish he was still in bed with you. hang in there, mom. enjoy the cuddling while you can!
luckily my 7 week old started sleeping in his own crib around 5 weeks. he still wakes up around 4am and won't fall back asleep until he's in bed with me. i'm worried i'm starting a bad habit, but then i remind myself that he's only weeks old!! try hanging in there. he just likes you there for comfort. i don't mind it because i love sleeping next to him, my only worry is habit. if you're worried about hurting him or rolling over...sometimes i use a boppy to prop him up and he loves sleeping in that right next to me in bed. of course i dont do that all through the night though...only the last few hours towards morning. good luck!
Make a recording of your heartbeat or buy one of those bears that has a women's heartbeat beating and place beside your baby. Mostly it is that 'comfort' that your child is wanting, but added comfort may include warmth, so make sure he is.
I bought one of those bears for my boys and my first loved it and my second didn't, so it's not failsafe but from what I've heard it's better than most.
i COULDNT put my son in his crib until 7 wks old - he would get so scared then one day i put him in there and he's been on there ever since before that he would sleep in a ';secure sleeper'; in our bed, then we moved it into a pack n play next to our bed at at times he slept in his bouncer or car seat - whatever works so you can get some sleep too!!
Well i dont know if this will work but when i had my son i was told you can take a heatin pad and under tha blankets for a while and take it out then take a water bottle and put hot water in it and put that on tha side of tha baby under tha blankets and it will give him some kind of feelin u r there....
but i neaver did try it 8(
this is a tough one, have you tried feeding him then putting him down drowsy but not asleep...or you could try complete opposite and get him to sleep then put him down, either way try not to pick him back up until he is actually crying...if he is just fussing he may quit and fall asleep, my son does that, he fusses and grunts for 30 min then eventually falls asleep. good luck
I co-sleep with my 13 week old daughter and I think its great. I can nurse her instantly and we both get at least 8 hours of sleep that way. You dont HAVE to put her in the crib but if you are wanting too I would start by swaddling and using some sort of white noise
His crib probably feels to big for him right now especially at 3 weeks. Babies that age like to feel secure try swaddling him before you put him down. This may help some with the space issue, or try putting him in a bassinet.
Nope.
But I have advice to make you happy about having him in your bed. -- http://www.awareparenting.com/sleep.htm
Try different alterations in the crib maybe he'll find a position in the crib that suites him
Our son slept in a bassinet swaddled next to our bed until he could sit up then we co slept until he was 9 months...he's been in his own crib for about 3 weeks thanks to the Ferber Method....best of luck
Get a bedside bassinet and place him in it after he falls asleep.
or
Wait 9 months or so when he starts sleeping through the night then transfer him into the crib - that's what we did!
he just likes the closeness of being next to you. wait till he's older or put a pillow beside him but make sure he wont suffocate.
you should let the baby sleep in your bed with you in it and when the baby is asleep you put him in his crib
Let him cry it out.
I wouldn't let him scream for hours! But try it at 5-10 minute intervals. Let him cry for 10 mins, then hold him, let him cry again, then go to him again. Just keep at it.
You gotta get him used to his crib asap, it'll only get harder and worse in time if he keeps sleeping in your bed.
good luck. and be patient, it won't happen over night, but it will happen in no time if you stick to it and keep putting him in the crib.
STOP TYPING IN ALL CAPS!
Yes, you take the kid and stick it in the crib. Then you go to bed and fall asleep.
At 3 weeks of age, this sleeping problem is not a problem with the kid or its behavior, it's a problem with you.
you need to go get some bloodwork done to make sure that you dont have post-partum depression. there's no shame in that, it's what naturally happens to your body as it adapts to not being pregnant anymore.
try not to give in. He is going to be upset when you put him in his own bed but that's only normal. If you keep getting him to sleep in your bed he will never get used to sleeping alone. Let him cry, even though its hard to do. If you put your foot down he will get used to his own bed.
Getting a vasectomy any advice or suggestions?
My appointment is scheduled for tomorrow. I have to admit im a little freaked out. What should i expect? how do i not feel depressed im doing it? any suggestions would be helpful.
thank you.Getting a vasectomy any advice or suggestions?
When I brought my husband home after his (we have 4 kids already,) he had to ride home in the car on his knees. He had a few rough days, but it's all easy sailing after they check you for sperm....lots of sex whenever he wants it...can't complain about that. I'm enjoying myself better, too. No worries!!! And to the moron who thinks the female should get her tubes tied, SHUT UP!!! She already carried each child for 9 MONTHS, got fat, had to go through a VERY PAINFUL labor/delivery and care for the child way more than the man ever did!!!!Getting a vasectomy any advice or suggestions?
Like the other comments stated...you made the decision so you have already answered those weighty questions. SO, what can you expect...yes to the ice bag. You will be told not to work the rest of the day and NO heavy lifting for the day - do it. The next day you will be fine - no pain. The Doc will numb you, cut the scrotum and find the trans deference tubes, which he will cut - on both sides. Then sew you up and send you on your way. Tylenol was all I needed after for pain - what little there was. Best wishes..no luck needed.
Well if you've come this far you must be convinced it's what you want to do. If it is then proceed. It's really not that big of a deal. The procedure takes about twenty minutes and recovery isn't bad. Follow the doctor's recommendations, take it easy for a few days. Nothing to it.
If you change your mind later it can usually be successfully reversed.
I chickened out on mine as soon as my brother told me about his. I wish you luck. buy an icepack. you'll be fine. I feel for you though.
It's easy, simple, and done usually, right in the office. I'm glad I did it. The soreness wears off pretty soon and is not too bad. Your scrotum will turn black and blue, but it won't really feel bruised. You'll be happy about it later. Trust me. It's a lot easier than what women have to go through thats for sure. Do it for her.
Just remember that it's the right decision for you (as I'd assume it is, if you're getting it). Good luck and congrats! :)
ummm dont! let the ***** get her tubes tied or something.
My husband did before we even met, and he swears by it. He sais that it's not painful, he even got laid that day. And he says it's the best thing he has done... Unfortunately if he wants it reversed it's a LOT of money.
It's a choice if you like sex and no protection, you can be sure that you wont be fathering kids from right and left. Thumbs Up for you!! Good choice
Having a vasectomy is a very personal and important decision. The medical profession will tell you to consider sterilisation as permanent, therefore you must be absolutely sure that this is what you want. Also vasectomy is not the right choice for everyone!
At this site, we try to collect the most useful vasectomy information available on the web. We hope to provide an objective balance of quality information and resources on all of the procedures available, risks and benefits, possible complications and after effects to enable men to make the choice that's right for them. We have a list of commonly raised issues and questions that you may want to print out to help you consider what questions to ask your doctor at your first consultation, based on the postings at the newsgroup. Also, we offer information on all other aspects of vasectomy, from the pre-vasectomy shave to post vasectomy semen samples - not to mention how to take care of yourself in between.
Other items at this site include the personal experiences of men who have undergone the procedure, a survey of men who have had, or are considering vasectomy, a list of the most frequently asked questions at alt.support.vasectomy and a section of relevant extracts from medical journals. We also have information on vasectomy reversal, new procedures such as Vasclip, and the ongoing medical research into alternative methods of birth control for men.
This site is neither ';pro'; or ';anti'; vasectomy. The site content is a mixture of articles, web links and contributions from posters to alt.support.vasectomy and this site. We strongly believe that visitors should have the benefit of viewing medical texts whole, and in context. Therefore medical information will usually be an HTML link to the original document. We do link to doctor's websites where we feel the information provided will be of use to our visitors. We aren't endorsing them - they aren't paying us! The information you find on this site is designed to support, not replace the relationship that exists between you and your doctor.
Please be aware that we are not doctors or psychologists. Just men that either have been through, or are contemplating having a vasectomy. Also please note that the webmaster is not a doctor, and has no medical qualifications. If you are considering a vasectomy, please make sure that you discuss all options and concerns with your physician prior to agreeing to any procedures.
If you have any questions, or just want to talk to someone about vasectomies, you can join the vasectomy chatroom or post your questions to alt support.vasectomy. The best time of day to chat in the Vasectomy chatroom is afternoon/evening EST (GMT -5 hours). The newsgroup. can be accessed via your ISP's newsgroup. server, or an on-line web based news service such as Google groups. alt.support.vasectomy is an un-moderated Usenet newsgroup. In both places there are men who have been through the procedure who are happy to answer your questions.
If you have any comments or suggestions about the website, or if you would like to post your personal vasectomy experience or submit any site content, please click the Email Webmaster link on any of the pages.
My son-in-law did this last May, and he thinks it's great! Just be careful the first couple of days, then...if you're married.....he says more sex, more fun because they both know......NO MORE BABIES!! (they have five)
thank you.Getting a vasectomy any advice or suggestions?
When I brought my husband home after his (we have 4 kids already,) he had to ride home in the car on his knees. He had a few rough days, but it's all easy sailing after they check you for sperm....lots of sex whenever he wants it...can't complain about that. I'm enjoying myself better, too. No worries!!! And to the moron who thinks the female should get her tubes tied, SHUT UP!!! She already carried each child for 9 MONTHS, got fat, had to go through a VERY PAINFUL labor/delivery and care for the child way more than the man ever did!!!!Getting a vasectomy any advice or suggestions?
Like the other comments stated...you made the decision so you have already answered those weighty questions. SO, what can you expect...yes to the ice bag. You will be told not to work the rest of the day and NO heavy lifting for the day - do it. The next day you will be fine - no pain. The Doc will numb you, cut the scrotum and find the trans deference tubes, which he will cut - on both sides. Then sew you up and send you on your way. Tylenol was all I needed after for pain - what little there was. Best wishes..no luck needed.
Well if you've come this far you must be convinced it's what you want to do. If it is then proceed. It's really not that big of a deal. The procedure takes about twenty minutes and recovery isn't bad. Follow the doctor's recommendations, take it easy for a few days. Nothing to it.
If you change your mind later it can usually be successfully reversed.
I chickened out on mine as soon as my brother told me about his. I wish you luck. buy an icepack. you'll be fine. I feel for you though.
It's easy, simple, and done usually, right in the office. I'm glad I did it. The soreness wears off pretty soon and is not too bad. Your scrotum will turn black and blue, but it won't really feel bruised. You'll be happy about it later. Trust me. It's a lot easier than what women have to go through thats for sure. Do it for her.
Just remember that it's the right decision for you (as I'd assume it is, if you're getting it). Good luck and congrats! :)
ummm dont! let the ***** get her tubes tied or something.
My husband did before we even met, and he swears by it. He sais that it's not painful, he even got laid that day. And he says it's the best thing he has done... Unfortunately if he wants it reversed it's a LOT of money.
It's a choice if you like sex and no protection, you can be sure that you wont be fathering kids from right and left. Thumbs Up for you!! Good choice
Having a vasectomy is a very personal and important decision. The medical profession will tell you to consider sterilisation as permanent, therefore you must be absolutely sure that this is what you want. Also vasectomy is not the right choice for everyone!
At this site, we try to collect the most useful vasectomy information available on the web. We hope to provide an objective balance of quality information and resources on all of the procedures available, risks and benefits, possible complications and after effects to enable men to make the choice that's right for them. We have a list of commonly raised issues and questions that you may want to print out to help you consider what questions to ask your doctor at your first consultation, based on the postings at the newsgroup. Also, we offer information on all other aspects of vasectomy, from the pre-vasectomy shave to post vasectomy semen samples - not to mention how to take care of yourself in between.
Other items at this site include the personal experiences of men who have undergone the procedure, a survey of men who have had, or are considering vasectomy, a list of the most frequently asked questions at alt.support.vasectomy and a section of relevant extracts from medical journals. We also have information on vasectomy reversal, new procedures such as Vasclip, and the ongoing medical research into alternative methods of birth control for men.
This site is neither ';pro'; or ';anti'; vasectomy. The site content is a mixture of articles, web links and contributions from posters to alt.support.vasectomy and this site. We strongly believe that visitors should have the benefit of viewing medical texts whole, and in context. Therefore medical information will usually be an HTML link to the original document. We do link to doctor's websites where we feel the information provided will be of use to our visitors. We aren't endorsing them - they aren't paying us! The information you find on this site is designed to support, not replace the relationship that exists between you and your doctor.
Please be aware that we are not doctors or psychologists. Just men that either have been through, or are contemplating having a vasectomy. Also please note that the webmaster is not a doctor, and has no medical qualifications. If you are considering a vasectomy, please make sure that you discuss all options and concerns with your physician prior to agreeing to any procedures.
If you have any questions, or just want to talk to someone about vasectomies, you can join the vasectomy chatroom or post your questions to alt support.vasectomy. The best time of day to chat in the Vasectomy chatroom is afternoon/evening EST (GMT -5 hours). The newsgroup. can be accessed via your ISP's newsgroup. server, or an on-line web based news service such as Google groups. alt.support.vasectomy is an un-moderated Usenet newsgroup. In both places there are men who have been through the procedure who are happy to answer your questions.
If you have any comments or suggestions about the website, or if you would like to post your personal vasectomy experience or submit any site content, please click the Email Webmaster link on any of the pages.
My son-in-law did this last May, and he thinks it's great! Just be careful the first couple of days, then...if you're married.....he says more sex, more fun because they both know......NO MORE BABIES!! (they have five)
I get frequent headaches.....any advice?
ok I get horrible headaches....I'll cry myself to sleep at night sometimes....and I'm constantly tired...no matter what I do the headaches don't seem to go away......I don't wanna go to the doctor because I had a heartproblem when i was little and have had to take so much medicine throughout my life that the thought of taking any more gives me a headache.....any advice?I get frequent headaches.....any advice?
there are several reasons i can think of that may give you headaches. it sounds like you may get migrain (i know that is not spelled right) headaches. make a appointment with your doctor. also have your doctor to check the pressure in your eyes. one other thing it may be, you may need to have some of your medicine changed.I get frequent headaches.....any advice?
It could be tension headaches, or migraines. I would get it checked out in case it is something more serious. I feel your pain - I get migraines. I take Imitrex and it is wonderful (Rx).
drink lots of water- keeps muscle saturated.
You may need to get eye glasses, if you don't already wear them.My doctor told me to take a daily vitamin also.
I'm a massage therapist, so take it from me, you need to see one. We are usually the last ditch effort for people. You could have trigger points in your neck and back. If you do it can be fixed without medication. Call around and find a therapist that does trigger point work. Not all of us do that. If you've lived with the pain this long, you owe it to yourself to take a risk and try it.
There are tons of triggers for headaches... smells, foods, light, allergies, stress, sickness... it's important to discover exactly what type of headache you have. Is it a cluster? Sinus? Tension? Migraine? They're all different.
Stress is a big cause of headaches, I use to have headaches, migraines. I thought it was just because of the stress in my life and I am sure that it had alot to do with it, but finally when I was pregnant with my son, they found out that I had high blood pressure. I don't like taking medicine either, but it's better than having a heart attack or a stroke. And guess what, I quite having the headaches so often. Form three a week to maybe three a year. Go to the doctor, it is worth it.
there are several reasons i can think of that may give you headaches. it sounds like you may get migrain (i know that is not spelled right) headaches. make a appointment with your doctor. also have your doctor to check the pressure in your eyes. one other thing it may be, you may need to have some of your medicine changed.I get frequent headaches.....any advice?
It could be tension headaches, or migraines. I would get it checked out in case it is something more serious. I feel your pain - I get migraines. I take Imitrex and it is wonderful (Rx).
drink lots of water- keeps muscle saturated.
You may need to get eye glasses, if you don't already wear them.My doctor told me to take a daily vitamin also.
I'm a massage therapist, so take it from me, you need to see one. We are usually the last ditch effort for people. You could have trigger points in your neck and back. If you do it can be fixed without medication. Call around and find a therapist that does trigger point work. Not all of us do that. If you've lived with the pain this long, you owe it to yourself to take a risk and try it.
There are tons of triggers for headaches... smells, foods, light, allergies, stress, sickness... it's important to discover exactly what type of headache you have. Is it a cluster? Sinus? Tension? Migraine? They're all different.
Stress is a big cause of headaches, I use to have headaches, migraines. I thought it was just because of the stress in my life and I am sure that it had alot to do with it, but finally when I was pregnant with my son, they found out that I had high blood pressure. I don't like taking medicine either, but it's better than having a heart attack or a stroke. And guess what, I quite having the headaches so often. Form three a week to maybe three a year. Go to the doctor, it is worth it.
Im having a party saturday at my house and i need to buy the bottles for tomorrow any advice on what to get ?.?
Plain vodka, some type of whiskey, and maybe some kind of fruity liquor like parrot bay coconut for the ladies.Im having a party saturday at my house and i need to buy the bottles for tomorrow any advice on what to get ?.?
A lot of beer. Vodka. Captian Morgan, Bacardi, or Southern Comfort.Im having a party saturday at my house and i need to buy the bottles for tomorrow any advice on what to get ?.?
Handle of Kettle one, Handle of Jose Quervo, Handle of Captain Morgain, and 6 thirty packs of budweiser
Definitely, Beer, Vodka and Rum, Have fun....
A couple cases of Busch or Natty, a bottle of everclear, and a fifth of jim beam.
A lot of beer. Vodka. Captian Morgan, Bacardi, or Southern Comfort.Im having a party saturday at my house and i need to buy the bottles for tomorrow any advice on what to get ?.?
Handle of Kettle one, Handle of Jose Quervo, Handle of Captain Morgain, and 6 thirty packs of budweiser
Definitely, Beer, Vodka and Rum, Have fun....
A couple cases of Busch or Natty, a bottle of everclear, and a fifth of jim beam.
How do you get a job with a felony? can anyone help me w/some advice?
my boyfriend made a mistake in the past. he is a very good man but now he has a felony on his record,and he needs a job can anyone help me out?How do you get a job with a felony? can anyone help me w/some advice?
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They update there information daily with fresh Jobs.
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Best wishesHow do you get a job with a felony? can anyone help me w/some advice?
Monster.com, is a job site. But my advice to any job Hunter they should find the creative side in themselves and build a website. Start on Godaddy.com, then check out youtube.com
your felon aught to be able to come up with some idea with those two leads. Quanga.com is another site where you can sell your stuff like ebay but free, and like myspace and free. I am a firm be
I have the same situation going on with my BF. His mistake was ten years ago now, though. He's actually filing for a court pardon now to get it cleared from his record.
The only thing i can recommend is to get a good education and do community service. Try to outweigh the bad on his record with good. Then after ten years, he can file for a pardon as well.
Well that's the penalty for doing stupid things. I can only suggest he be honest about it and let them know ...he was perhaps young and stupid when he did it and has reformed but there is no way he can deny the record. Some may give him a chance, others will have reservations. That is the price.
there are several places. one good reason i always did. was because of parole, you have to have a job. so you have to go to work. alot of places do not check. they ask the question but do not follow through. i really do not see what the big deal is about felons, everyone makes mistakes.apparently you have paid your dues or you wouldn't be out now. good luck. some jobs are telemarketing. don't laugh. i make x-cellent money and is a skill that is very in demand. you will always be able to get a job if you can master the trade. business owners will fight over you if you are any good. why not? you are actually generating money for them.
There are some best websites having very large database.
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Best wishesHow do you get a job with a felony? can anyone help me w/some advice?
Monster.com, is a job site. But my advice to any job Hunter they should find the creative side in themselves and build a website. Start on Godaddy.com, then check out youtube.com
your felon aught to be able to come up with some idea with those two leads. Quanga.com is another site where you can sell your stuff like ebay but free, and like myspace and free. I am a firm be
I have the same situation going on with my BF. His mistake was ten years ago now, though. He's actually filing for a court pardon now to get it cleared from his record.
The only thing i can recommend is to get a good education and do community service. Try to outweigh the bad on his record with good. Then after ten years, he can file for a pardon as well.
Well that's the penalty for doing stupid things. I can only suggest he be honest about it and let them know ...he was perhaps young and stupid when he did it and has reformed but there is no way he can deny the record. Some may give him a chance, others will have reservations. That is the price.
there are several places. one good reason i always did. was because of parole, you have to have a job. so you have to go to work. alot of places do not check. they ask the question but do not follow through. i really do not see what the big deal is about felons, everyone makes mistakes.apparently you have paid your dues or you wouldn't be out now. good luck. some jobs are telemarketing. don't laugh. i make x-cellent money and is a skill that is very in demand. you will always be able to get a job if you can master the trade. business owners will fight over you if you are any good. why not? you are actually generating money for them.
Advice on getting on with life after my parents divorce?
My parents divorced 8 years ago and I have been so unsettled in life ever since. I was very close to my dad and he is now living 3000kms away with his wife (the woman he had the affair with). My mother has changed a lot and now lives with my sister as she can't bear to be on her own. She has lost her enthusiasm for life. I have my own family but I feel like the extended family is lost. I feel like I am searching for something. We have moved towns and houses a lot since the divorce and I don't stay at a job any longer than 6 months whereas I used to have a very good job history prior. I feel like my own children are suffering and I really need to get on with my life but I am really hurting still. We have decided to stay put in the town we are in now because my children have started school so I think that I have had time to think and reflect on what has been really happening. Please help me get on with my life!!Advice on getting on with life after my parents divorce?
Your parents divorce would have presented to you a whole new world, one which you formerly did not know existed.
Your father has moved on with a new woman in his life and your mother is not moving on. That is hard for you to witness. Hard for you to deal with. It raises many questions about what you thought family meant. It raises many issues about the permanence of relationships of all kinds.
To be able to put the divorce behind you will mean not blaiming and resenting your father and not sympathising too strongly with your mother. Your parents are grown up people who made decisions based on what each of them wanted or needed at the time. Your mother's decision to fall apart instead of pulling herself together and moving on has nothing to do with you giving up the enthusiasm for life is her choice for herself. Don't buy into it and don't let your mother's decisions for herself affect your or your childrens well-being.Advice on getting on with life after my parents divorce?
Happens..Lifes a Bithc!
Don't get on. My parents are divorced, and there is no way for any person who cared about their parents marriage to get over it. Just try not to make any of the mistakes that your parents made.
Each area has a community mental health clinic that helps people learn skills to ';get on with'; their lives.wet eyeshadow
Your parents divorce would have presented to you a whole new world, one which you formerly did not know existed.
Your father has moved on with a new woman in his life and your mother is not moving on. That is hard for you to witness. Hard for you to deal with. It raises many questions about what you thought family meant. It raises many issues about the permanence of relationships of all kinds.
To be able to put the divorce behind you will mean not blaiming and resenting your father and not sympathising too strongly with your mother. Your parents are grown up people who made decisions based on what each of them wanted or needed at the time. Your mother's decision to fall apart instead of pulling herself together and moving on has nothing to do with you giving up the enthusiasm for life is her choice for herself. Don't buy into it and don't let your mother's decisions for herself affect your or your childrens well-being.Advice on getting on with life after my parents divorce?
Happens..Lifes a Bithc!
Don't get on. My parents are divorced, and there is no way for any person who cared about their parents marriage to get over it. Just try not to make any of the mistakes that your parents made.
Each area has a community mental health clinic that helps people learn skills to ';get on with'; their lives.
IM A SONGWRITER AND IM NOT SURE HOW TO GET MY STUFF OUT THERE. ANY ADVICE?
depending on your location there are plenty of open mics. out there that you can perform at. if you don't live in a city than you'll have to do some traveling, but how bad do you want to expose your material? trust me i've been in a band for seven years it all depends on how bad you want people to hear your stuff and how much time your willing to spend.IM A SONGWRITER AND IM NOT SURE HOW TO GET MY STUFF OUT THERE. ANY ADVICE?
Well if you like singing and performing do local stuff. Like you can perform in fairs and clubs. Make a demo in a studio and send them out to small labels, let them get to know you first and then big labels would probably come around.
Im not sure if that's what youre asking,but i hope that helps.IM A SONGWRITER AND IM NOT SURE HOW TO GET MY STUFF OUT THERE. ANY ADVICE?
one way you could get your stuff out there is if you play an instrument or you know someone who does put a beat to it. If your school or community has a talent show or any type of performance thing, if you sing or know anyone who does, sing it to a crowd get it heard or if you have a local recording studio or songwriting studio send it to them but call first and make sure you can send it in or they will send it back. Hope this works
Well if you like singing and performing do local stuff. Like you can perform in fairs and clubs. Make a demo in a studio and send them out to small labels, let them get to know you first and then big labels would probably come around.
Im not sure if that's what youre asking,but i hope that helps.IM A SONGWRITER AND IM NOT SURE HOW TO GET MY STUFF OUT THERE. ANY ADVICE?
one way you could get your stuff out there is if you play an instrument or you know someone who does put a beat to it. If your school or community has a talent show or any type of performance thing, if you sing or know anyone who does, sing it to a crowd get it heard or if you have a local recording studio or songwriting studio send it to them but call first and make sure you can send it in or they will send it back. Hope this works
Does anyone have any advice on how to get my boyfriend jace tipton back for breaking up with me?
jace is my boyfriendDoes anyone have any advice on how to get my boyfriend jace tipton back for breaking up with me?
He's not your boyfriend, he broke up with you.
I don't have any advice on how to get back at him other than to say ';Don't do it!'; Move on. Getting back at someone just makes you look needy and pathetic, someone who just couldn't take ';no'; for an answer.
Living your best possible life is the best way to get back at someone.Does anyone have any advice on how to get my boyfriend jace tipton back for breaking up with me?
Kill him with kindness. I was totally in love with this guy and when we broke up i was always rude to him and like trying to get revenge but all that did was make thigs worst. we hated eacch other and we were always fighting. Now i have been extremely nice to him nd when i see him i put a huge smile on my face and show him that i am not hurting anymore. trust me that really gets to him. so just kill him with kindness
No. Your screwed.
A wise man once said: ';Revenge is a dish best served cold';
So here's what you do. Get some dry ice. Break into his car, and through as much of it in as possible
Spread it around. If he has a cool stereo, make sure there's some on it.
Then, try and seal the car. Get it as airtight as possible. Duct tape (the real stuff) works very good.
Then, watch from a safe distance. If all goes well, all of his windows will crack/shatter and his interior will be ruined.
START DATING EITHER A CLOSE FRIEND/RELATIVE OR HIS WORSE ENEMY
He's not your boyfriend, he broke up with you.
I don't have any advice on how to get back at him other than to say ';Don't do it!'; Move on. Getting back at someone just makes you look needy and pathetic, someone who just couldn't take ';no'; for an answer.
Living your best possible life is the best way to get back at someone.Does anyone have any advice on how to get my boyfriend jace tipton back for breaking up with me?
Kill him with kindness. I was totally in love with this guy and when we broke up i was always rude to him and like trying to get revenge but all that did was make thigs worst. we hated eacch other and we were always fighting. Now i have been extremely nice to him nd when i see him i put a huge smile on my face and show him that i am not hurting anymore. trust me that really gets to him. so just kill him with kindness
No. Your screwed.
A wise man once said: ';Revenge is a dish best served cold';
So here's what you do. Get some dry ice. Break into his car, and through as much of it in as possible
Spread it around. If he has a cool stereo, make sure there's some on it.
Then, try and seal the car. Get it as airtight as possible. Duct tape (the real stuff) works very good.
Then, watch from a safe distance. If all goes well, all of his windows will crack/shatter and his interior will be ruined.
START DATING EITHER A CLOSE FRIEND/RELATIVE OR HIS WORSE ENEMY
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