Saturday, July 31, 2010

How do I get him to not be so jealous of EVERYONE else and see that he's the only one for me??? Any Advice?

I mean, he's jealous everytime I talk about a guy other than him or even talk TO a guy other than him. He has a low self-esteem (I can tell this, even though he'd never admit it) and thinks that I would blow him off and run off with any male that's not him. How do I get him to realize that he's really the only one for me? It seems like, even though I constantly tell him this, he will never believe it. Help and Advice please!How do I get him to not be so jealous of EVERYONE else and see that he's the only one for me??? Any Advice?
You are basically asking, ';How can I cure my man's insecurity';.





And the answer is, ';You can't';





Only he can repair his self-esteem.How do I get him to not be so jealous of EVERYONE else and see that he's the only one for me??? Any Advice?
You have to constantly reassure him how much you love him and he is the only one for you. It's natural for any guy to be jealous if you talk to or about another guy infront of him. The worse thing to do, if you say are just going to lunch with a friend, guy friend in particular just tell him you are going to lunch with this guy friend. Never hide it, cause if he finds out, even if it was nothing he would be even more jealous and wont trust you as much.





But the best is to look in to his eyes hold him and tell him you love him. Constantly reassure him this. Might sound tedious, but I guarantee you this will work. Give it some time and he will come around and know how you feel about him.
Sounds like you need to stop giving him reasons to be jealous? Talking to other men (although innocent) is what is upsetting him. If you want him, you will have to sacrifice until he gains trust in you. Ask him to watch how you act around other men and not worry about the man sweeping you off your feet. Only you can prove to him by your actions!
Tell him again and again and prove it by not hanging out with your guy friends for a while. But maybe his insecurity issues are getting in the way of your relationship....
There is nothing you can do. Sorry to say this but if you are not cheating or anything then h should trust you. trust me no matter what ou do he will just get worse. he needs to change himself. never ever change who you are to be with a guy. be you always. drop him seriously jealousy is a big red flag unless you have cheated
okay...my ex was the same...and the major part of the break up was because of the jealousy overload...too much never works out well..





Its kinda cute a little bit of jealousy but in ur situation i believe he will be like that forever even though there are ways to improve someones way of thinking and acting but u will never change who he is. If he gets help it may improve but it will always come back..





He may be the guy for u but at the same time not so much...and u can't just place urself in a house and never talk to another man...its impossible...





Think about that :)
Do what I call a ';Nancy Reagan';. (Remember how she looked at President Reagan without so much as blinking ~~~ that longing look!!!) Whenever he is in your view give him the ';Your my knight in shining armor LOOK';. Sigh ~~~ and don't take your eyes off of him no matter what happens. Sigh ~~~ continue the longing look. Sigh ~~~ look him straight in the eyes and mouth the words --- ';I love you'; and then give him a big, huge SIGH!!! After a while he will beg you to stop and you would have ';teased him'; out of a paranoid situation.
ummm.........you can't unless you somehow make him trust you with repect
If you just casually say ';hello'; to a guy, he's getting too worked up. If you have male ';friends'; you see on a regular basis, I can certainly understand your boyfriend's point of view. Generally, friends are the same sex as yourself; sexual tension generally arises if when the opposite sexes mingle. Even if you don't suspect anything, men are generally thinking about relations when they hang around a girl.
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