I really had fall in love with this teacher and i need to get over him.any advice 10 pts for the best answer?

its like he started to ignore me in class


He used to talk to me during lessons and now he takes time to even answer my question (am not the kind of girl who flirts with teachers and ask them random question)i respect him alot.i need to get over him cause he's my teacher and i need him to answer me in class we have exams


Plz any adviceI really had fall in love with this teacher and i need to get over him.any advice 10 pts for the best answer?
You have probably been obvious and he is trying to discourage you without saying something to you about your actions. You may have made him uncomfortable. You will both get over it.





He is probably a very good teacher. Girls often get a crush on teachers who are good or on doctors. It is admiration and exchtement about learning. But girls get confused with the excitement of education and think they are in live with the person who opens this learning to them. This is why there is such a strong prohibition against teacher and student dating even at college level at times. Young girls are especially impressionable and mix that excitement about knowledge opening their minds that they see the teacher as exciting rather than the subject.





I had a friend in HS who was crazy about a history teacher. She said he was so tall and handsome. I didn't have him until the next year. I looked at him and wondered what was wrong with her. He was tall and his waist was duspropotiinate to his height. He was chunky and not good looking at all. I told her so but she still had this big crush. When I had his class the following year I understood it as he opened up history and his classes were exciting. He told us things our books left out. He challenged us to think and I still remember an essay on who was best or worst president and why. We could go into anything we wanted but just needed to have facts and reasons to feel they were best or worst. I almost had a crush myself and would if I hadn't examined it closely the year before when my friend had her crush. He created or increased my live fir history. I live to see historic sites.





I am sure guys may have some of same feelings in their crushed but I think they tend to gifts on some parts if the anatomy as well.





If you will understand that you are not in live with him as live only comes with time and with reciprocal feelings you can get over this and treat him more with respect as being gaga isn't respect but puts him in a position of being hassled by his colleagues or worse flattered by your attention.





You have a crush based on the fact that he is a good teacher. When you treat him more as a teacher he will revert to asking and resounding to you. You may also see him as ignoring you when he treats you like everyone else. Your crush may have you treating him differently. But don't be upset as crushed happen all the time. You and he will get over it. Do not make an issue of it. Never close a door when you talk to teachers. Treat him normally. I hope you Sion see that your crush is on the fact that he is good at his job and not about him but about your own learning. Later on you may say, ';I thought I had a crush on you at the first of the test and then I realized you just made the subject fun and I was learning a lot. Thanks for being a good teacher. ';. Give it time though for you to get over this. Maybe look around for a boyfriend in hour class. Guys your age are a bit shy so you be first to look at a guy, smile and say hello. Maybe even a comment about class or a compliment on an answer or achievement.





Good luck.I really had fall in love with this teacher and i need to get over him.any advice 10 pts for the best answer?
No use to sit in the back. Just be aware that your feelings are normal and that it could be mixed up in the fact that he is a good teacher. Just don't draw attention to it. When you relax more I think he will too. Good luck to you.

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It sounds to me like you might have become rather obvious about having a crush on him, so he appropriately backed away to make it clear to you that he wasn't interested. This isn't a matter of getting over him; even if you don't care at all any more, he may avoid answering your questions now so that he doesn't lead you on. If you are worried about not getting your questions answered, have a friend (or several) ask them for you. Just explain to them that the teacher has been ignoring you when you ask the questions, and you need their help to get answers.