Thursday, July 29, 2010

Please Help me? I need all the advice i can get.?

my boyfriend's brother is dating his x and sometimes he goes over with his brother and hangs out with her, then when i ask him about it he lies to me, i really don't wanna let him go because we have been dating almost a year and a half now and i just don't know what to do because he says i just need to trust him but i can't with her, so please help.Please Help me? I need all the advice i can get.?
Can you trust him? Relationships are build on trust and if there's no trust in your relationship, it's pretty much doomed for failure. If you can trust him, just express your concerns but make sure he knows you trust him...ask him to go along one day...try and ease this discomfort you feel.Please Help me? I need all the advice i can get.?
He lies to you because he already knows you don't like the arrangement. You don't like the arrangement because you figure he and she are having good memories about each other and you think that's a bad thing. He lies to you because he wants to make his own decisions and not have it seem like you run his life completely. You don't want him to make his own decisions because you're afraid someday those good memories will turn into more than conversation. He wants you to be able to trust him. You say that you can't. Sounds like you worked all the way through your own problem. You don't really need us if you mean what you say about not trusting him..........do you??
Maybe you should talk to him and explain how and why you feel like that. And if he understands he would respect that and listen to you.
Lying is never a good thing so talk to him %26amp; see why he has to lie about things be direct with him there is definitely trust issues here
i would find out why he's lieing to you and find out what's up about that because the lieing just causes problems for both of you

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