I get very nervous talking to girls, please i need advice?

I am in college and i see cute girls everyday, but my 2 main problems are that i do not have the courage to walk up to them and talk to them, and secondly, i do not have any good icebreakers to use, like if i see a girl passing at the hallway, or in the bookstore buying books etc, i just freeze or if i say anything my body just involuntarily quivers,its so depressing, and i have struggled with this nature for over 5 years, nothing seems to help, if anyone can advice me on the courage and the words to use i will be very grateful.thanksI get very nervous talking to girls, please i need advice?
I too have the same problem and so does many others. We guys just completely freeze up when we see a cute girl and wanted to talk to. It seems like mission impossible to walk up to her and talk to her about something.





I know, I know, some of you may think it's not very hard but it is if you want to be successful at talking to her and maybe getting to know her better it's super hard.





Right as I'm typing this, a cute girl just sat down at my table. I have already tried talking to her but it seems useless because I have no good material to use. Sure, I found out a lot of things about her but I couldn't keep the conversation going and then I saw it happen. As it has happened to me many times, she got bored and started studying or doing something else. That's the clue that I wasn't very interesting enough to keep her attention and doesn't want to talk anymore. Well, that's it...no good. Sure, I can ask more questions or comment on something else, but I would have to restart the whole beginning phrase again and I already did it 3 times, so if I do it again, I'd just be bugging her.





This sucks, oh well, time to talk to the next girl and hopefully it be better than this time. :)I get very nervous talking to girls, please i need advice?
The way I see it is, who cares what others think about you? It doesn't matter how well you present yourself, and it doesn't matter how you look if you are happy with who you are then don't be afraid. What is the worst that can happen? will they laugh? WHO CARES. will they make fun of you? WHO CARES. will they ignore you? WHO CARES. Do you really value the opinion of someone you don't know? Talking to a woman is the same as talking to a man, sometimes the conversation will develop into friendship and sometimes it will lead to dislike.
Have you tried just smiling? This makes us curious and we say hi. If you make an effort to relax and seem confident we also are drawn to this. And just talk about them. Ask them what classes they are taking, what major etc. We love it when it is all about us. And we love it when someone makes us laugh, use your sense of humor but don't be gross.
Firstly Calm Down And Just Be Yurself (Yu Seem Like A Sweet Guy), Everyone Gets Nervous.


Have Yu Tried Gettin A Guy Friend To Talk To Them Wiv Yu?


Or Maybe Start Texting Or Talking To Girls On Msn First So Yu Get To Kno Them Wiv Out The Pressure Of Being Face To Face Straight Away.


Hope It Helped :)
the problem is your thinking about it too much and putting unneeded pressure on yourself. just go for it, the first time will be hard, but after that it will all come naturally
Do you have and/or read the book ';How To Talk To Girls'; by Alec Greven. It gives you the advise on how to talk to girls.
i have the same problem at times. if you dont do it you'll only regret it you know.