Question About a break-up. I need all the advice I can get please!!!?

Me and my boyfriend of 3 years have broken up because I found out he has recently (I say recently because thats what I know of) been talking to other females, such as chatting them up. Like any other time we've broken up we keep texting each other or calling each other and giving each other a whole load of abuse, however we usually make up. Only this time I feel like I want him back but only for the sake of my baby that is due in 4 weeks. Other than that I don't really want to be with him. Yet we keep texting each other and although they're not pleasant, it's as though we have unfinished business. Do we? I know many of u are gonna say don't text him back, but that's much easier said than done because he'll say something really rude and I feel I have to say something rude back! Does anyone have any advice on this or been in a similar situation??Question About a break-up. I need all the advice I can get please!!!?
Sounds like he's bad news. Not a suitable candidate to help look after the baby. There are many guys out there who wont mind seeing a single mom, if I may say that. You dont need to suffer emotionally for the rest of your life. You should be thinking of happy things and pleasing thoughts, for the sake of your baby.Question About a break-up. I need all the advice I can get please!!!?
you don't want a baby growing up in that kind of environment.


Please find someone else...
Just look at the whole situation carefully. There's a baby on the way and the baby needs a father in his/her life. Do you really love this dude? Because if you don't theres no need for you to live unhappy all because the baby needs a dad. Now, review the situation like I mentioned b4, give urself a chance, ignore his msgs. and drop him. there are more fishes in the sea, aiiite? Its 2008 and you drop whats not good for you... Not good? gotta go! Sincerely speaking if you love him, sit him down, and have a serious talk, because it seems like you in control and hormones are making you hate him and/or act up... Me and wifey broke up when she was 7 months prego because she cudn't stand seeing my face. I left her alone, by leaving, but kept in touch. Right after the baby was delivered, in the hospital she pull me to her and kissed me with an (I'm sorry for being so rude) and 'em problems between us were done with. I'm pretty sure youll feel different after giving birth towards him, but if theres's no love, sorry to say, but it'll be better for you and your baby's happiness. Good Luck Ma! and congrats... take care!