Thursday, August 19, 2010

I need all the advice i can get. i need help and i cant get this question out of my mind. i need to know!!!!!!

thers this guy and at first he liked me (i figured ir out by the way he acted) there would be staring, flirtitng, walking to class with me, ect. so i was gonna tell him i felt. then one day i got to school he didint talk to me at all. we walked to class together and it was silence. no conversation at all %26amp; that wasnt common between us. so we just didnt talk anymore. this was like in Dec. so i was just like 4get about him %26amp; i kept telling myself that im so over him %26amp; didnt care for him anymore when the truth was i still did but i never talked to him or asked why he was doing this. i thought it was becuz he found out i liked him but now i dont think it is. so i always got nervous by him get away from him ect. so evr since last week hes been flirting with me out of the blue. the 1 time i acted like i didint care. and when im walking up the stairs i see him %26amp; i go slow %26amp; he always joggs up the stairs and brushes by me or gets close. so whats this guysproblem. i really like this guy! help!!I need all the advice i can get. i need help and i cant get this question out of my mind. i need to know!!!!!!
so, he likes you, and he's avoiding you. maybe u should talk to him, see whats up with him, kinda rebuild your friendship, and when you guys are back to the way things were, maybe tell him how you feel. hope this helps!I need all the advice i can get. i need help and i cant get this question out of my mind. i need to know!!!!!!
Just come out and ask him what's up... just say something like... oh, so you can talk to me now... he'll probably look at you like what?... and just tell him, I thought you were upset with me or something cause you just disappeared... now i'm cool enough to talk to... it's kind of like playing hard to get, which will keep him interested. You don't want him to think that you've just sat around thinking about him or anything... so keep it relaxed, and make him feel like he's missed out. He'll come around... just be honest :)
You need to initiate something with him or else you will never know how he really feels about you. Go into it knowing that it may not end up how you would like but at least you will know the truth. Maybe he tried to start something and wants to see if you will do the same back. Try to talk to him more so it's less ackward and so you will know more about each other and can avoid ackward silences. Try to ask him to come to a party or big group gathering first just with friends to see if he is different to you in a big crowd or not. Keep it slow unless he hints to go faster.
This sounds a little bit of the situation I am in. But if I were in your shoes, I would talk to him. If he flirts with you flirt back. If you two are walking together and it is quiet ask him what his favorite song is or ask him what kind of music he likes. Just ask him about what kind of stuff he likes you never know, you two could have more in comon then you think. Good Luck!
You should ask him what happened. Then if you like him tell him how you feel.

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