I need all the love advice I can get!! HELP ME!!!?

I spent the whole day with my boyfriend on Saturday. We had a pretty serious conversation at the end of the night. First I told him that I wasn't ready to have sex with him right now or for a while. We've only been dating for 2 months. He said that was fine but it would be hard for him. Then, he is going to be moving to Japan in the fall %26amp; he told me that he really likes me a whole lot and doesn't want to leave because I'm the only thing here that he wants. He didn't tell me that he loves me but he seemed close. He asked me what we were going to do and I said I don't know. He said we can just go and get married next weekend. We both laughed at that but he says things from time to time about If we were married. In the end all was fine. Sun. he emailed me a couple x's so I texted. An hour later he said that he had gone to see a movie with a friend he went to college. He answered with only a couple words though. Then today he was grumpy and said he was tired. What up with this???I need all the love advice I can get!! HELP ME!!!?
He is mad because you did not have intercourse with them. He was rejected. when this happens a lot of thoughts go through their head. Some sinful and some understanding. compare it to the stages of grief. was he in DENIAL that you decline sex, like in example did he ask twice or more and possibly at different times and ways. It seems that he is in his ANGER stage now. BARGAINING appeared to have occurred when he stated that you could get married next weekend. DEPRESSION, he probably was hurt at one point in time or sad about the whole situation. ACCEPTANCE, this is the hardest stage to reach but with time, if he loves you or even cares for you, he will wait. There are those guys out there that put on a show, wine you and dine you , and when they get your trust. BAM you have sex and they are with someone else and your heart soul is broken, you feel violeted and go into a depression that could last years. Then you first time would be the worst day of your life. DATE RAPE. Happens all the time. Some don't know its RAPE. IF HE CAN NOT UNDERSTAND YOUR THOUGHTS AND FEELING, HE IS NOT THE ONE TO HAVE SEX WITH. YOU HAVE PLENTY OF TIME TO HAVE SEX, MAKE KIDS, AND GROW OLD. IT WILL BE SO MUCH MORE SPECIAL IF YOU WAIT FOR YOUR WEDDING NIGHT. of course you yourself may go the the five stages that i listed above, sorry, truth hurts , wake up to reailty. best wishes.I need all the love advice I can get!! HELP ME!!!?
You didn't say how old you both are.Assuming that you are both old enough to be serious with each other. Sounds as though he might be trying to move on with someone else since he didn't want to talk to you. Maybe you need to go out with someone else for awhile, if he is the one for you, I believe it will work out in the end.
He's probably bothered a little cause he's leaving and he loves you.





perhaps he and his friend got in an argument that night.or he could have just woken up on the wrong side of the bed. Or got in trouble with someone. It could just be one of those days.





you should try and talk to him, sit him down and tell him you were a little concerned about the way he acted today. And just don't try to sound harsh.





Good Luck!
From my experience, guys will say anything to get into your pants. I'm not saying he's lying, in fact he may believe everything he's saying, but having sex changes everything. You'll start going out less on dates and sex will either become very important to him, or he'll lose interest. Be sure he loves you first. Does he do stuff for you? For example, a guy that loves you will plan stuff for you to do together, or he'll cook for you or fix your car or even help you find a job. (That's what my boyfriend did.) If you're a teenager, I'd say wait six months, if you're in college or in your early 20's I'd say wait three or four months. If he sticks around for that long, he probably likes you for you and the sex will be just a bonus.





Hope this helps.
he wants to get in your pants!!!! that's it.


Unfortunately, it seems like you're going to lose him if you guys don't get down and dirty, but don't give in sweetie.


you won't feel any better if you do what he wants. you'll just feel crappy; your self-esteem will most likely plummet. You should have sex only when YOU are comfortable and if you do what you feel is right, then you'll be a very proud and confident woman.


Sex shouldn't happen unless the words I Love You are spoken from the heart!!!!!
Don't read anything into this. He's probably doing alot of thinking about your situation and doesn't know the answers.


He's dealing with it as best as he can. You both need to sit down and talk things through. I wish you luck
what a dick!!!!!!!!!!!!! ask him how was she!!!!