I think they do this (1) because their friends are not telling them what they are wanting to hear or (2) they can tell or ask a stranger what they can't tell or ask a friendWhy do people insist on getting advice on their love life via blogs with strangers?
I am glad you are not my neighbor. I would have a bake off every time you got a new family pet.
It's no different than writing to ';Dear Abby'; or ';Ask Pat';...It's just, maybe you are a little more anonymous here?..?..
In the asking is the feeling of insecurity coupled with the fear of having lost or being faced with the possibility of losing the most precious thing one can have - Love. Love in its myriad complexities is attached to insecurity and fear and despondency arises naturally. They say that Love is akin to Hate - which happens when one does not realise that even though the object of love does things that one does not expect that person to do - if it is true love - it will live on for ever - and love needs nourishment all the time - so one needs direction - and perhaps the people who ask questions get direction from all the people who answer these seemingly stupid questions ... and strangers may not be as strange as the ones we know - Smiles - and no one knows what anyone is going to do before it is done in the area of love - and if you want to be spared the question - then dont read them - turn a blind eye like Lord Nelson ....
you know why ,they are qualifing their veiws through me and you that makes whatever they decided to do already seem justified ,,, watch whos answers they select,,, they are not scarey with intellect in the first place
Because we like it when our own preconceptions are validated by others, even strangers.
Plus everybody likes to complain and the Internet gives the appearance (although not necessarily more than that) of anonymity.
Most people have trouble with love since it's mostly irrational and generally because it's one of the strongest emotions, leeds to, well, great stupidity.
people enjoy the anonymity blogs provide
They prefer to have the option of remaining anonymous rather than telling all their friends about their problems (esp. guys) coz they're scared all their friends will give them heaps about it. And maybe they're bored at work. I know that's why I reply :-)
hey I can't reach you on the evolution question. I might as well answer your statement. I wouldn't say that anybody that argues agains't evolution is stupid and doesn't know anything. Many Creationists have college and doctorate degrees. I know it is, anything that contradicts your ideas is stupid
the answer is simple... other pleole will always say the truth....about their own expirience, that is... it is harder to trust someone who knows you or sees you often.
by the way even if it is your most personal question we tend to take the advice we want to hear and not what is good for us any questions?SM
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